Crazy8, you seem to have left out the prime ingredient: sharing. Whether it's straight or gay sex, it doesn't work too well when one partner does all the giving while the other sits back and relaxes. Each of these things you asked your g/f to do might have netted a different result if they had proceeded naturally from the love-making itself rather than as a clinical experiment to simply try a new experience. Sometimes the things that are done specifically in the genital and anal regions are less exciting than simply kissing and caressing. For those who only want a b/j, or to get their butts fingered, there are "Glory Holes." Beds are for love-making.
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