Penis Sleeves Anyone? - Page 5

shorter1 · 01-20-2012, 10:14 PM

Without going into a lot of detail now, let's just say from early on, even before my wife and I got married, the fact that my penis was far smaller than her "ideal size" of 7-1/2 to 9 inches was an issue. I never could give my wife an orgasm through penetrative sex alone, even though other men both before I met her and up to the present could and can. With me she would either rub herself while I fucked her, or she would use a battery-powered vibe on her clit while I screwed her furiously.

From not too long after we got married, after my wife and I made love, she would masturbate herself to screaming orgasms. Most often with her vibe but also with a fairly large dildo. When I asked her why she used the dildo even though she claimed not to really like dildos, would tell me things such as she occasionally likes to feel, as she puts it, "like I have a real dick inside me". She suggested I try a penis pump to make my stubby bigger but I have heard too many dire things about them, so I declined her offer to buy me one.

One day, while mulling over the "mark-down" table in an adult bookstore and sex shop, I found what I though would be the perfect thing to give my wife what she craved. It was a soft plastic sleeve made for slipping over an insertable vibrator. It is kinda like a hollowed out dildo maybe 8" long. I bought it with the intention of using it as a penis extension but did not have the nerve to do so at first, so I presented it to her as what it was, a vibe sleeve that turned her vibbie into a jolly-whopper vibrating dildo. Then one night after we had sex and I watched with a hard-on as she finished masturbating, I slid the sleeve off her vibe, and with a little saliva as lube, I slid it over my cock! She giggle and said, "Maybe you need to use that next time you fuck me". And so my idea took root!

The next time we made love, my wife remembered and had the sleeve out on the bed. When I was ready to enter her she told me to put it on and I did. She seemed to love it! And so it went for a time: I would slide the sleeve over my stubby before entering her and off we'd go. At first my wife balked at it being "cold" so I would warm it in a bowl of hot water before putting it on. Since I am a lot shorter than the sleeve, "drooping" and bending of the hollow part of the sleeve was a problem. I solved that by filling the empty space with a piece of that cylindrical black foam rubber used to insulate pipes.

Now I had a big dick!! If I got her good and cranked up first and I used my newly acquired size just right, my wife sometimes came with me through penetration alone - which she does not do with my "unassisted" little penis alone.

We called the thing "Big Jake". My wife about completely stopped seeing other men after the arrival of Big Jake. She completely stopped going out on weekends looking for a "date" and only fooled around if a hot hung guy practically stumbled in her path and into our bed. Size and the ability of other men to last longer than my little too quick dick were the reasons she fooled around. All of her lovers had/have big cocks, usually in the 8 to 9 inch range - none were much shorter than that. Now I was in the "hung stud" category! When I fucked her with the sleeve on, my wife would often close her eyes and fantasize that she was fucking one of her former big-dick lovers. But it was me fucking her and making her cum and it was all good!

The friction would be such that I could cum too, even though I much preferred fucking her bareback than having my cock wrapped in what amounted to a 1/8" thick condom. On the plus side, my premature ejaculation was much less of a problem because even though there was some stimulation from my dick sliding a bit inside the sleeve, I could still last long enough so she would cum sometime.

During the "Big Jake" period, my wife was far less inclined to seek satisfaction of her "size queen" inclinations elsewhere. Too bad it was not too very long before my wife tired of the whole penis extension thing saying she preferred the sight and feel of (and sucking on) the "real thing" and once again she began actively seeking more well-endowed lovers to satisfy her needs.

Big Jake has long since disintegrated but here is a picture of one like it.

mrsstoutman · 01-20-2012, 11:09 PM

I had one of those. We did not like it being so firm and plastic like compared to other sleeves. It was also too long for me inside like you mentioned but I am thick and it was hard to put on cause it was not very flexible.

hoverfly · 01-22-2012, 10:08 AM

Shorter, may I ask if you were inclined towards cuckoldry before you met your wife and if you had sex before you got married? I do hope I am not being too intrusive with that question but both your post in the intro thread, as well as this one did make me wonder.

From my very own standpoint, which I agree, must not be shared, I don't think that I'd be much inclined to such a lifestyle but then, we are all different. Also, maybe do remember, there are such things as STD's out there, so I do hope that she bears that in mind when going out hunting for a 'donkey'.

shorter1 · 01-31-2012, 11:31 PM

I, like most men here, am willing to proudly display and tell about my small penis and how it has impacted my life - an attribute that most men would be quite ashamed of. That being the case, I should have no problem answering just about any question that anyone here would care to ask.

To answer your question, from my teens I was always attracted to more "spirited" girls; girls who truly enjoyed sex. I considered the word "slut" to be a positive declaration - a description that to me meant a woman who took ownership of her body, unafraid of embracing and enjoying her sexuality. To me, the fact that a woman may have had many sexual partners before me was a good thing. This being the case, many if not most, of the females I have been involved with have "strayed" while in a relationship with me. The fact that I have a fairly short, stubby little penis came into play more than once.

When I first started dating the non-monogamy bothered me greatly and hurt; however, one particular lady I dated, Desiree - a very foxy part Latina, part Italian hottie - initiated me into what was to be my coming out era in becoming what I would later learn is called a "cuckold". After we both realized that we loved each other, and talked about taking our relationship to the next level and moving in together, she made it clear that while she loved me deeply, she absolutely did not believe in monogamy and she would always reserve the freedom to be intimate with other men. She also eventually intimated that she was a bit of a "size queen" and she firmly but lovingly made it quite clear that when the urge for a lover with a bigger cock arose she would not deny the hunger. My wife is like Desiree in this

Desiree's honesty was refreshing! She vowed that she would never hide her lovers and would make every effort for me to get to know them too, if I wished. I came to learn that - in my case anyway - it was not the fact that a partner was seeking satisfaction in the arms of other men, but rather the fact that most were not honest about it. It was the dishonesty that bothered me. With Desiree everything was out in the open. After we moved in together, she was true to her word and dated other men; on occasion she would even spent the night or whole weekend depending on her mood. It came to pass that my curiosity got me to asking questions about her dates and her lovers. Desiree was not at all reluctant to answer my questions, regardless of how personal they might be - not that I usually ventured into pressing her for any details about the actual physical aspect of their date. That was more than I needed to know at the time. Sometimes, however, Desiree would venture into more detail than I wanted to hear and whenever her stories began to get too intimate I would tell her to stop.

One summer Sunday afternoon, after Desiree came home from spending Friday and Saturday nights with a guy, we were at home drinking and smoking and listening to music and getting high on some very potent Michoucan cannibis. Eventually the subject of her date came up and I began my usual line of questioning by asking her some general questions about her weekend and the guy. She answered my questions as usual but being a bit high by then she went far beyond the usual general details like whee they went and what they ate and his personality, job, etc. Desiree began venturing into very graphic and intimate physical details about how he seduced her out of her clothes and once naked, what their sex together was like. I was a bit high too, and by the time I thought to tell her to stop her erotic narrative, and to my utter surprise, I realized that I was becoming quite aroused by her bawdy story.

Desiree noticed my emerging boner and said something like: "Ooooo! Babyyy! You like me being a bad girl don't you? Gee! You get all turned on hearing about how good Steve fucked me with his nice big long, thick dick, don't you Baby?" I must have turned ten shades of red, but as they say, "A hard-on never lies", regardless of its size.

Yes, I was turned on hearing all the sweaty, tumescent details about her sexual encounters that weekend. Very turned on. I got even more aroused and even harder when Desiree took my boner as a cue for her to be a very verbal and a blisteringly vulgar slut. With my stubby little cock throbbing in her hand she began to lead me through all the kisses, caresses, licks, strokes, grunts, squeals, sweat, semen and unbridled pleasure her weekend held. By the time she got to the part where they were naked together in the shower before going to bed together, I had spewed my hot sticky mess in her hand. But she did not stop her story (or her stroking) and soon I was hard again. She kept talking and stroking. She continued her story and stroked my stubby until I came two more times. And so my journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy took an unexpected turn.

There was one other episode with Desiree that was the final catalyst for my ultimate surrender and giving way to my true inner nature as a submissive male and a cuckold. I will share that here on a forum thread at another time.

My wife's outlook to sex is quite similar to Desiree's, and our marriage is quite similar to the relationship I had with Desiree. My wife is quite selective with her men but once she finds a suitable lover the relationship tends to be long-term with a good degree of intimacy and trust. In common with all her men is that they have much larger penises than mine (which, as she often reminds me, is not a difficult order to fill). At some point in theri relationship she will want to forego condoms and enjoy skin-to-skin bareback sex with them so she will ask that they take a test for STD's.

I can appreciate your stance on the matter as non-monogamy is not everyone's cup of tea. However for us it keeps our relationship fresh and exciting, and it fulfills my inner need to be dominated and sexually subjugated by my female partner.

hoverfly · 02-01-2012, 09:06 AM

Hi Shorter, that's an interesting story and as you say, it is not my thing at all but so long as things are done by mutual consent and it doesn't involve minors, well, no harm done to anybody.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.

The only thing that did worry me a little was her position on using condoms or rather not using them at an advanced stage. HIV/AIDS as as far as I am aware not reliably detectable before several month have passed, I think that would be one of my major concerns.

lilutfan · 02-26-2012, 07:06 AM

Sorry hoverfly I meant it made the ex-wife squirt like crazy ( g-spot orgasm,female ejaculation, and things of the such.)

scoutnboo · 08-25-2013, 01:58 PM

we have one

amylen · 08-25-2017, 11:52 PM

Yes, now almost all the time

smallproblem2000 · 08-26-2017, 05:48 PM

Yes, we use them. I prefer the ones that try to look a bit realistic.

Koreanchasity · 08-20-2019, 12:14 AM

This is actually one of the main ways my wife realized she need something bigger. She was a virgin when we got together. The first few times we had sex, she didn’t orgasm and said I just didn’t feel like I was in all the way. She also said she thought it would hurt, but she was surprised it didn’t. I had brought up the idea of toys, and she said she’d like to try them. So I bought a penis sleeve that was “life like” I worked her up and said I had to go to the bathroom real quick, I went into the bathroom, slid the sleeve on, lubes it up, came back out, it was pretty dark so she couldn’t see it, and I slid it into her and started pumping away. She let out a huge moan the second I pushed it into her and kept commenting on how big I felt and how good it felt. She had her first orgasm, and when I showed her what I was wearing, she was surprised and turned on. She said she was wondering why I felt so big that day. This sleeve only added an inch or so in length, but probably a good inch and a half in girth. I ended up buying another sleeve that is clear and she loved how she could see where my penis ended. This one was about 3 inches longer than me and about an inch and a half around bigger. She loved the extra length, her only probables was that this one wasn’t as soft and didn’t feel as “real”. She did like having my hands on her hips and, waist and ass while fucking her, something I can’t do while using dildos, but since then, she has become accustomed to bigger and thicker toys. I have tried to find good sturdy sleeves, but it’s hard to find ones that seem like they are both soft and firm enough. So if anyone has a recommendation on a good sleeve, please let me know. She can only take about 8-9” max depth, but around she can take as thick as it can be. So if anyone knows of good sleeves that are super thick, please let me know.

01-20-2012, 11:09 PM	#42
mrsstoutman Tiny Dick Expert Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 305	I had one of those. We did not like it being so firm and plastic like compared to other sleeves. It was also too long for me inside like you mentioned but I am thick and it was hard to put on cause it was not very flexible. __________________ Why does it have to be big, small, long, or short? Isn't it just a penis?!? Enjoy it !!

01-22-2012, 10:08 AM	#43
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Shorter, may I ask if you were inclined towards cuckoldry before you met your wife and if you had sex before you got married? I do hope I am not being too intrusive with that question but both your post in the intro thread, as well as this one did make me wonder. From my very own standpoint, which I agree, must not be shared, I don't think that I'd be much inclined to such a lifestyle but then, we are all different. Also, maybe do remember, there are such things as STD's out there, so I do hope that she bears that in mind when going out hunting for a 'donkey'. __________________ Feeling a little peckish? Visit The Official Food Porn Thread Click here if you need help uploading pictures. Guide to Uploading and Managing your Attachments Click here if you need to contact the forum staff. List of Forum Staff

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hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Hi Shorter, that's an interesting story and as you say, it is not my thing at all but so long as things are done by mutual consent and it doesn't involve minors, well, no harm done to anybody. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. The only thing that did worry me a little was her position on using condoms or rather not using them at an advanced stage. HIV/AIDS as as far as I am aware not reliably detectable before several month have passed, I think that would be one of my major concerns. __________________ Feeling a little peckish? Visit The Official Food Porn Thread Click here if you need help uploading pictures. Guide to Uploading and Managing your Attachments Click here if you need to contact the forum staff. List of Forum Staff

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01-31-2012, 11:31 PM	#44
shorter1 Tiny Dick Wanna Be Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Central Florida Posts: 8	I, like most men here, am willing to proudly display and tell about my small penis and how it has impacted my life - an attribute that most men would be quite ashamed of. That being the case, I should have no problem answering just about any question that anyone here would care to ask. To answer your question, from my teens I was always attracted to more "spirited" girls; girls who truly enjoyed sex. I considered the word "slut" to be a positive declaration - a description that to me meant a woman who took ownership of her body, unafraid of embracing and enjoying her sexuality. To me, the fact that a woman may have had many sexual partners before me was a good thing. This being the case, many if not most, of the females I have been involved with have "strayed" while in a relationship with me. The fact that I have a fairly short, stubby little penis came into play more than once. When I first started dating the non-monogamy bothered me greatly and hurt; however, one particular lady I dated, Desiree - a very foxy part Latina, part Italian hottie - initiated me into what was to be my coming out era in becoming what I would later learn is called a "cuckold". After we both realized that we loved each other, and talked about taking our relationship to the next level and moving in together, she made it clear that while she loved me deeply, she absolutely did not believe in monogamy and she would always reserve the freedom to be intimate with other men. She also eventually intimated that she was a bit of a "size queen" and she firmly but lovingly made it quite clear that when the urge for a lover with a bigger cock arose she would not deny the hunger. My wife is like Desiree in this Desiree's honesty was refreshing! She vowed that she would never hide her lovers and would make every effort for me to get to know them too, if I wished. I came to learn that - in my case anyway - it was not the fact that a partner was seeking satisfaction in the arms of other men, but rather the fact that most were not honest about it. It was the dishonesty that bothered me. With Desiree everything was out in the open. After we moved in together, she was true to her word and dated other men; on occasion she would even spent the night or whole weekend depending on her mood. It came to pass that my curiosity got me to asking questions about her dates and her lovers. Desiree was not at all reluctant to answer my questions, regardless of how personal they might be - not that I usually ventured into pressing her for any details about the actual physical aspect of their date. That was more than I needed to know at the time. Sometimes, however, Desiree would venture into more detail than I wanted to hear and whenever her stories began to get too intimate I would tell her to stop. One summer Sunday afternoon, after Desiree came home from spending Friday and Saturday nights with a guy, we were at home drinking and smoking and listening to music and getting high on some very potent Michoucan cannibis. Eventually the subject of her date came up and I began my usual line of questioning by asking her some general questions about her weekend and the guy. She answered my questions as usual but being a bit high by then she went far beyond the usual general details like whee they went and what they ate and his personality, job, etc. Desiree began venturing into very graphic and intimate physical details about how he seduced her out of her clothes and once naked, what their sex together was like. I was a bit high too, and by the time I thought to tell her to stop her erotic narrative, and to my utter surprise, I realized that I was becoming quite aroused by her bawdy story. Desiree noticed my emerging boner and said something like: "Ooooo! Babyyy! You like me being a bad girl don't you? Gee! You get all turned on hearing about how good Steve fucked me with his nice big long, thick dick, don't you Baby?" I must have turned ten shades of red, but as they say, "A hard-on never lies", regardless of its size. Yes, I was turned on hearing all the sweaty, tumescent details about her sexual encounters that weekend. Very turned on. I got even more aroused and even harder when Desiree took my boner as a cue for her to be a very verbal and a blisteringly vulgar slut. With my stubby little cock throbbing in her hand she began to lead me through all the kisses, caresses, licks, strokes, grunts, squeals, sweat, semen and unbridled pleasure her weekend held. By the time she got to the part where they were naked together in the shower before going to bed together, I had spewed my hot sticky mess in her hand. But she did not stop her story (or her stroking) and soon I was hard again. She kept talking and stroking. She continued her story and stroked my stubby until I came two more times. And so my journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy took an unexpected turn. There was one other episode with Desiree that was the final catalyst for my ultimate surrender and giving way to my true inner nature as a submissive male and a cuckold. I will share that here on a forum thread at another time. My wife's outlook to sex is quite similar to Desiree's, and our marriage is quite similar to the relationship I had with Desiree. My wife is quite selective with her men but once she finds a suitable lover the relationship tends to be long-term with a good degree of intimacy and trust. In common with all her men is that they have much larger penises than mine (which, as she often reminds me, is not a difficult order to fill). At some point in theri relationship she will want to forego condoms and enjoy skin-to-skin bareback sex with them so she will ask that they take a test for STD's. I can appreciate your stance on the matter as non-monogamy is not everyone's cup of tea. However for us it keeps our relationship fresh and exciting, and it fulfills my inner need to be dominated and sexually subjugated by my female partner.

02-26-2012, 07:06 AM	#46
lilutfan Tiny Dick Advanced Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 133	Sorry hoverfly I meant it made the ex-wife squirt like crazy ( g-spot orgasm,female ejaculation, and things of the such.)

08-25-2017, 11:52 PM	#48
amylen Tiny Dick Wanna Be Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Australia Posts: 6	Yes, now almost all the time

08-26-2017, 05:48 PM	#49
smallproblem2000 Tiny Dick Intermediate Join Date: Nov 2016 Location: Staffordshire Posts: 91	Yes, we use them. I prefer the ones that try to look a bit realistic.

08-20-2019, 12:14 AM	#50
Koreanchasity Tiny Dick Wanna Be Join Date: Aug 2019 Posts: 11	This is actually one of the main ways my wife realized she need something bigger. She was a virgin when we got together. The first few times we had sex, she didn’t orgasm and said I just didn’t feel like I was in all the way. She also said she thought it would hurt, but she was surprised it didn’t. I had brought up the idea of toys, and she said she’d like to try them. So I bought a penis sleeve that was “life like” I worked her up and said I had to go to the bathroom real quick, I went into the bathroom, slid the sleeve on, lubes it up, came back out, it was pretty dark so she couldn’t see it, and I slid it into her and started pumping away. She let out a huge moan the second I pushed it into her and kept commenting on how big I felt and how good it felt. She had her first orgasm, and when I showed her what I was wearing, she was surprised and turned on. She said she was wondering why I felt so big that day. This sleeve only added an inch or so in length, but probably a good inch and a half in girth. I ended up buying another sleeve that is clear and she loved how she could see where my penis ended. This one was about 3 inches longer than me and about an inch and a half around bigger. She loved the extra length, her only probables was that this one wasn’t as soft and didn’t feel as “real”. She did like having my hands on her hips and, waist and ass while fucking her, something I can’t do while using dildos, but since then, she has become accustomed to bigger and thicker toys. I have tried to find good sturdy sleeves, but it’s hard to find ones that seem like they are both soft and firm enough. So if anyone has a recommendation on a good sleeve, please let me know. She can only take about 8-9” max depth, but around she can take as thick as it can be. So if anyone knows of good sleeves that are super thick, please let me know.