Obsession with penis size

hoverfly · 12-09-2010, 10:33 AM

Both my wife and I still totally fail to see the attraction of enormous penises. We ran a sex education centre in mainland Europe for some 15 years and believe me, probably 98% of all woman do “not” enjoy being impaled by something resembling a fire hose rather then a human organ. You may feel envious of the guy with a +8” penis but why? The average vagina is no more then about 5” deep (a little deeper during arousal), so what do you want with any more then that. Wrap it round your leg?

It is the porn industry that is selling you a) penis envy, b) performance envy and then (who would have thought so)… c) the supposed cures for something you are not actually suffering from, unless, of course, you are prepared to join their bandwagon. Need some good advice? Just don’t.

I too only have a 4.5” penis, thin at that, yet my wife once commented on this to a close female friend saying, it was the best and most satisfying sex she had ever experienced. What more can you ask for.

If anything, women are after a certain girth and the girth they may feel they require/need/desire is something very individual, in most cases primarily depending on the health and training of their PC muscle group (pubococcygeus muscle) and that is something that any woman can exercise. We have two children, we are both 50+ years old, yet her vagina has a grip that is worthy of a teenager. All due to exercising this group of muscles that surrounds the vaginal canal (this is also the group of muscles that restrict the flow of urine).

Once again, there are clear indications that especially the manufacturers of incontinence towels and other such items are not really interested in promoting this knowledge as it would massively impair their turnover.

The most worrying aspect of this “monstercock” obsession is the impact on youngsters who a) have little or no knowledge about sex and b) may be enticed into thinking that porn could possibly have something to do with the sexual act be it between opposite or same sex couples. I could continue to drone on about this issue but won’t, after all, this site too is related to a porn site after all (albeit it is playing the opposite game, though basically still cashing in on what the other sites are providing).

Maybe, just maybe, you stay away from porn sites for six month, read up on human, especially female physiology and then go back and have another look.

To put it in the words of the late Frank Zappa…

Everything over a mouthful is wasted.

QED – I rest my case

Hoverfly

bustedm · 12-09-2010, 12:15 PM

Although you're right that most women don't want a horse cock, they do want a larger than average dick. Many surveys show 7 to 8 inches as the ideal size. And 6 inches or so of girth.
This is larger than average, and would be considered huge compared to most of the dicks on this site.

hoverfly · 12-09-2010, 06:59 PM

May I enquire exactly which surveys exactly you may be referring to?

hoverfly · 12-10-2010, 10:02 AM

Penis size: Survey of female perceptions of sexual satisfaction

Russell Eisenman

University of Texas-Pan American, Department of Psychology, Edinburg, TX 78539-2999, USA

BMC Women's Health 2001, 1:1doi:10.1186/1472-6874-1-1

The electronic version of this article is the complete one and can be found online at: BioMed Central | Full text | Penis size: Survey of female perceptions of sexual satisfaction

Received: 12 May 2001
Accepted: 8 June 2001
Published: 8 June 2001

Alternatively, here is the link to the full research paper as a pdf file:
http://www.biomedcentral.com/content...2-6874-1-1.pdf

hoverfly · 12-10-2010, 10:13 AM

@Tinydick4u:

Sorry about the main part of the research paper above missing, the forum software does not allow me to post the whole paper.

Anyway, this is a) only one of dozens of scientific surveys and b) this one, like most of these surveys, was actually carried out in the USA.

You should be able to find plenty of information at the Rutgers University, Newark, website, where Prof. Carolyn A. Gerdes, PhD, works in the field of sexual research. On the same site you should be able to access the findings of Beverly Whipple, PhD, who also used to carry out her research there.

hoverfly · 12-10-2010, 10:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tinydick4u

Why do I always get laughed at by women,and why do they walk out on me when they see my 3.5 inch penis?Why have I had so many tell me that they left me for a guy with a bigger package?The UK must be a better place.

Again, the fiirst question would be under which circumstances these rejections occurred. One night stands are possibly a cause, as these will inevitably focus on "instant sexual gratification", usually achieved with a total stranger. The pair bonding aspect should never be underestimated.

hoverfly · 12-10-2010, 10:24 AM

Here is another interesting piece of research from a condom manufacturer...

ansell - education

kinkylittlecock1 · 12-10-2010, 12:15 PM

I am 5+ and my wife and I have a great sex life but she also enjoys a large cock. I have seen her take 11+ inches and I SAW the enjoyment.

bustedm · 12-11-2010, 01:32 PM

When women say that "size doesn't matter" it means they are fine with an average size cock.
This does not mean they are fine with a 3 inch cock.
It's just like money. Most women will tell you they don't need a guy with a lot of money. However, it doesn't mean a broke ass man is acceptable.

hoverfly · 12-13-2010, 09:43 AM

Maybe I just struck gold at the end of the day. I only ever had three or four girlfriends and was only dumped once, wether for my penis size or not... don't know, don't care.

My first girlfriend who later became my first wife, she was still a virgin (nothing to rave about there), so dhe didn't know any better. The marriage didn't last more then three years as she needed someone more settled, not like me, constantly working on some new business scheme, so we divorced and she went on to marry a civil servant.

The next one, a little round-assed girl with big tits, she suddenly stopped coming home in the evening and then split for some other guy. That being said, she was a great little squirter, so I must have hit her spot correctly.

And now I have been happily married for more then 25 years and she comes like a rocket and loves to squirt as well.

As I said above, maybe I just got lucky.

But still, 11", if that is "the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth", that is very unusual, in fact just as unusual as the guy wielding that donkey dick.

12-09-2010, 10:33 AM	#1
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Obsession with penis size Both my wife and I still totally fail to see the attraction of enormous penises. We ran a sex education centre in mainland Europe for some 15 years and believe me, probably 98% of all woman do “not” enjoy being impaled by something resembling a fire hose rather then a human organ. You may feel envious of the guy with a +8” penis but why? The average vagina is no more then about 5” deep (a little deeper during arousal), so what do you want with any more then that. Wrap it round your leg? It is the porn industry that is selling you a) penis envy, b) performance envy and then (who would have thought so)… c) the supposed cures for something you are not actually suffering from, unless, of course, you are prepared to join their bandwagon. Need some good advice? Just don’t. I too only have a 4.5” penis, thin at that, yet my wife once commented on this to a close female friend saying, it was the best and most satisfying sex she had ever experienced. What more can you ask for. If anything, women are after a certain girth and the girth they may feel they require/need/desire is something very individual, in most cases primarily depending on the health and training of their PC muscle group (pubococcygeus muscle) and that is something that any woman can exercise. We have two children, we are both 50+ years old, yet her vagina has a grip that is worthy of a teenager. All due to exercising this group of muscles that surrounds the vaginal canal (this is also the group of muscles that restrict the flow of urine). Once again, there are clear indications that especially the manufacturers of incontinence towels and other such items are not really interested in promoting this knowledge as it would massively impair their turnover. The most worrying aspect of this “monstercock” obsession is the impact on youngsters who a) have little or no knowledge about sex and b) may be enticed into thinking that porn could possibly have something to do with the sexual act be it between opposite or same sex couples. I could continue to drone on about this issue but won’t, after all, this site too is related to a porn site after all (albeit it is playing the opposite game, though basically still cashing in on what the other sites are providing). Maybe, just maybe, you stay away from porn sites for six month, read up on human, especially female physiology and then go back and have another look. To put it in the words of the late Frank Zappa… Everything over a mouthful is wasted. QED – I rest my case Hoverfly

12-10-2010, 10:02 AM	#4
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Penis size: Survey of female perceptions of sexual satisfaction Penis size: Survey of female perceptions of sexual satisfaction Russell Eisenman University of Texas-Pan American, Department of Psychology, Edinburg, TX 78539-2999, USA BMC Women's Health 2001, 1:1doi:10.1186/1472-6874-1-1 The electronic version of this article is the complete one and can be found online at: BioMed Central \| Full text \| Penis size: Survey of female perceptions of sexual satisfaction Received: 12 May 2001 Accepted: 8 June 2001 Published: 8 June 2001 Alternatively, here is the link to the full research paper as a pdf file: http://www.biomedcentral.com/content...2-6874-1-1.pdf Last edited by hoverfly; 12-10-2010 at 10:18 AM.

12-09-2010, 12:15 PM	#2
bustedm Tiny Dick Novice Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 44	Although you're right that most women don't want a horse cock, they do want a larger than average dick. Many surveys show 7 to 8 inches as the ideal size. And 6 inches or so of girth. This is larger than average, and would be considered huge compared to most of the dicks on this site.

12-09-2010, 06:59 PM	#3
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	May I enquire exactly which surveys exactly you may be referring to?

12-10-2010, 10:13 AM	#5
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	@Tinydick4u: Sorry about the main part of the research paper above missing, the forum software does not allow me to post the whole paper. Anyway, this is a) only one of dozens of scientific surveys and b) this one, like most of these surveys, was actually carried out in the USA. You should be able to find plenty of information at the Rutgers University, Newark, website, where Prof. Carolyn A. Gerdes, PhD, works in the field of sexual research. On the same site you should be able to access the findings of Beverly Whipple, PhD, who also used to carry out her research there.

12-10-2010, 10:24 AM	#7
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Here is another interesting piece of research from a condom manufacturer... ansell - education

12-10-2010, 12:15 PM	#8
kinkylittlecock1 Tiny Dick Expert Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Rocky Mount , NC Posts: 288	I am 5+ and my wife and I have a great sex life but she also enjoys a large cock. I have seen her take 11+ inches and I SAW the enjoyment.

12-11-2010, 01:32 PM	#9
bustedm Tiny Dick Novice Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 44	When women say that "size doesn't matter" it means they are fine with an average size cock. This does not mean they are fine with a 3 inch cock. It's just like money. Most women will tell you they don't need a guy with a lot of money. However, it doesn't mean a broke ass man is acceptable.

12-13-2010, 09:43 AM	#10
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Maybe I just struck gold at the end of the day. I only ever had three or four girlfriends and was only dumped once, wether for my penis size or not... don't know, don't care. My first girlfriend who later became my first wife, she was still a virgin (nothing to rave about there), so dhe didn't know any better. The marriage didn't last more then three years as she needed someone more settled, not like me, constantly working on some new business scheme, so we divorced and she went on to marry a civil servant. The next one, a little round-assed girl with big tits, she suddenly stopped coming home in the evening and then split for some other guy. That being said, she was a great little squirter, so I must have hit her spot correctly. And now I have been happily married for more then 25 years and she comes like a rocket and loves to squirt as well. As I said above, maybe I just got lucky. But still, 11", if that is "the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth", that is very unusual, in fact just as unusual as the guy wielding that donkey dick.