Liking your small penis but also liking SPH.
 

I sometimes struggle with these two things. Its hard to like your small member but to also crave small penis humiliation. When I get horny or get excited about SPH and then cum its ok at the time. However when I think about what I am doing later I feel bad about it. These two things don't go well together and I don't think SPH is such a good thing overall. I am interested in others feelings about this.

Hi,

I can understood your struggle. SPH is ambivalent. But I think it doesn't matter, if you don't exaggerate this. Here is my experience.

Especially when I was a boy, I hat to go through some SPH (stirped down by mates, they laught at me and grapped at my penis and balls). This occured, because I was uptight; I always put my towel over my tiny dick. And therefore I aroused interest about him.

So when I had a son, I decided, that he had to show his penis at the beach, in locker rooms and similar locations (thus quite naturally during prepubescent period). He shouldn't get so uptight as me. Sometimes my son hesitated, although his dick wasn't as tiny as my one (1.5 inch vs. 0.5 inch). But I forced him being nude (and I also explained my reasons). And i have to say, that every time I forced him, I get a little bit excited about this soft "penis humiliation". But overall, my son never get uptight like me.

Conclusion: if you get excited due to SPH, so what.

kleinerMann

By the way: Did you see my pics in "introduction". Do they rise your fantasy? If so, please tell me.

Fortunately, I never had any "SPH" problems when I was younger. I've gone through life without it being an issue. Only the internet introduced me to how small I am - and I don't mean compared to all the horse-cocks on all the porn sites. There are enough "average joes" out there for me to know I'm a "well-below-average joe".

The SPH thing really kicked-in for me when I started visiting a naturist beach. In the early years, preventing a boner was the main concern, but as I've got older that's become less of a problem, so now I can walk around with my little nub scrunched up between my legs . A few years ago, some girls giggled at my size. This should have been humiliating, but it just gave me a buzz.

I've been trying shufflepeople recently and getting women to laugh at me is quite a thrill. I'm guessing they laugh at the large cocks as well, though, but you just know they're laughing for different reasons... Some of them came out with great mocking comments (most of the "pro" humiliatrixes on the net just resort to plain insults, which I don't find stimulating at all).

So at the moment, I can't get enough of it - though for me, I don't find it humiliating as such, just exciting...

M

I'm sort of in the same boat. I love SPH, I love the experience of being teased for my tiny size by someone who knows how to press my buttons. It gets my little thing stiff like nothing else, almost to the point of being an obsession for me. (As obsessions go, it's not so bad, but really, I could take the time I spend masturbating and trawling for giggles online and DO something with my life...)

On the other hand, I think SPH has helped me come to terms with having a little willy in many ways. I've gotten to chat with a lot of people since I started indulging in this fetish. Some want to tease me, some are shocked and confused why I would "put myself down" by wanting to be teased, and a few others--VERY few, as is to be expected--just adore tiny cocks, and give me lovely compliments when they see mine! I have had lovely long chats with men and women who prefer smaller ones, or who think they're cute, and who hasten to remind me that I am worth more than my measurement; I am a person who should not be ashamed of the body I was given at birth.

So there are some women out there who prefer big cocks and wouldn't want to do anything with mine. Well, I didn't grow up to be a seven-foot-tall basketball player, and neither am I brilliant enough to be a Nobel-Prize-winning nuclear physicist, either. I will do what I can with what I have, preferably with someone who appreciates who I am.

Even if who I am is a boy with a teeny weenie. :)

I don't care for true humiliation but I like being a cuckold, seeing my wife riding huge thick cocks. It turns me on knowing her pussy is being streached wide and deep. She prefers thick black guys about 11 to 13 inches. For the last 2 years she hasnt fucked around and didn't allow me to suck cocks. Last night after making luv and my cock didnt get hard she told me she wants to see a guy she met but hasnt fucked. She wants me to set it up. I heard he is huge and yes I'm going to set it up.