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Old 06-22-2011, 03:47 PM   #1
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Hi all, I might be asking the wrong people but since I'm here, here goes...

I have a pretty high sex drive and my wife does not due to medical issues, so I spend a lot of time playing with my little willy and getting off with porn and chat online. It's starting to take up too much time, as it can take upwards of an hour or so for me to reach a decent solo orgasm. I honestly enjoy masturbation, and I love engaging in fantasy kinks while doing it; but twice, three times daily is making me feel like a slave to my urges, and it makes it hard (lol) to concentrate on stuff I really should be doing instead. My computer at home has turned into my wank altar instead of a tool I use to be creative, and it's so distracting...

Does anybody have advice on how to cut back on masturbating? I know my main problem is a combination of weak will, strong sex urges and a fetish that won't go away...i have considered chastity devices, but those are expensive, unwieldy and it would be difficult to explain to the missus--i think she'd be mad at me for not controlling myself better and would demand I not wear it. (i have heard a side effect of these devices is additional shrinkage...i can't tell if that would make things better or worse!)
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Old 06-23-2011, 04:52 AM   #2
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Just power through. That's really all one can do. Find a hobby, hell work out maybe. Yoga helps the mind and soul.
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Old 06-23-2011, 07:43 AM   #3
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Yep you have to keep busy. If you have nothing to do the urges will keep knocking until you answer the call.
If I have the whole day to myself it can be really difficult not to jerk off at least once.
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Old 06-23-2011, 11:45 AM   #4
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2/3 times? That's half of me on average. D:

Really, today I sat and tried not to masturbate. I was hard for the first half of the day, then after it I didn't need to cum at ALL. So just put it out your mind and eventually...
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Old 06-26-2011, 09:59 AM   #5
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i cant help meself when it comes to masturbating. 3-4 times a day. i dont really want to cut down. feels good, hehe
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Old 06-26-2011, 03:34 PM   #6
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no they dont but they do get swollen
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Old 06-30-2011, 10:37 PM   #7
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Hi all, I might be asking the wrong people but since I'm here, here goes...

I have a pretty high sex drive and my wife does not due to medical issues, so I spend a lot of time playing with my little willy and getting off with porn and chat online. It's starting to take up too much time, as it can take upwards of an hour or so for me to reach a decent solo orgasm. I honestly enjoy masturbation, and I love engaging in fantasy kinks while doing it; but twice, three times daily is making me feel like a slave to my urges, and it makes it hard (lol) to concentrate on stuff I really should be doing instead. My computer at home has turned into my wank altar instead of a tool I use to be creative, and it's so distracting...

Does anybody have advice on how to cut back on masturbating? I know my main problem is a combination of weak will, strong sex urges and a fetish that won't go away...i have considered chastity devices, but those are expensive, unwieldy and it would be difficult to explain to the missus--i think she'd be mad at me for not controlling myself better and would demand I not wear it. (i have heard a side effect of these devices is additional shrinkage...i can't tell if that would make things better or worse!)
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Old 07-01-2011, 06:59 PM   #8
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Not as well as I would like, I'm afraid...oh well...
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Old 07-02-2011, 01:02 AM   #9
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Hi all, I might be asking the wrong people but since I'm here, here goes...
Does anybody have advice on how to cut back on masturbating? I know my main problem is a combination of weak will, strong sex urges and a fetish that won't go away...)
A question... How old are you and how long have you been married? I wouldnt be at all concerned unless it really is interfering with your productivity and relationships.

Hey, I'm an older married bloke and I've masturbated all my life. Even during the early days of marriage When we were fucking like rabbits, I jerked off in the shower almost everyday as well as other times when needed. Certainly there wasn't Internet porn around then but that didn't stop me.

Now though, in my 60's I still jerk off 3 or 4 times per week and enjoy it more than ever. My computer has also become a shrine to self pleasure.

A lot of you young fella's don't realise how lucky you are to have all this masturbation material available with the click of a button. We older blokes had to do it the hard way :-)
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