Having a small penis & effects on your life - Page 4

Road · 02-16-2013, 04:06 AM

I understand a lot of what you guys went through, are going through...my life isnt the greatest, but I dont let it hold me down completely. Also a virgin soooooo yea.

salmonpink · 05-22-2013, 10:06 AM

I'm a kind of pessimist, still I think you should have continued your sport. Now imagine you have become a star known over the world and everyone knows you're small down there. So what? Its courage that matters. If I were like that, I would publish my nude pics so theere is nothing for the rest of the world to wonder. It's kind of erotic to you know. And I think there would be a lot of hot girls who would be dying to hook up with you -being the star you are. I'm not being nice to you but the world works that way. it's all about making a buzz when it comes to celebrities. having published sex tape made a career for the likes of Kim karadishan you know..

Hey, why don't you put some pics of you here?

Thanks.

Desertdick · 06-12-2013, 06:47 AM

The ol' what if! Yes, it (having a small penis) affected my life in a negative way.....but NOT because I have a small penis......but because I ALLOWED it to. I avoided all team sports (shower issue), intamacy of any kind through High School and College, never much of a "guys" friend to speak off. Today, I realize I missed out on a lot of things....and even allowed my "short commings" to control many (if not most) of my life choices. All this because some ass hole in middle school laughed and humiliated me in the gym showers. I allowed this jerk, who today would have no idea who I am.....affect the rest of my life! I gave him that much power.

I was always trying to compare my self with the immaginary man hood of the next guy....instead of on their or my accomplishments.....the true mark of a man. Some how I missed that in growing up what makes a true man....which 65 years later I realize has nothing to do with penis size!

I so understand your feelings of not following through with your life's gifts.....it js a choice. But sadly, one that needs not be made. The size of our penis is not the mark of a real man. I am only sorry it took me so long to realize this.....my hope is that you, being in your 20's and any other young men could realize this at an earlier stage and not go through life blaming any and all lifes difficulities on your small penis! It just is not the case....if you do not allow it.

crazy8 · 06-12-2013, 07:31 PM

Thank you for the kind words Desertd.
I have a hockey stick in the corner of my living room, with gloves and helmet on top. My jersey hangs above the stick. MY gf and my friends have all noticed, every single time i walk by that part of the room or even look that way, i always have the most saddest emptiest look on my face. I cant help it. My friends still ask me why i never went on to play professional hockey....
To be honest, if i could go back in time, i would still quit hockey. There is just no way i would be able to handle all the shit i would get from other guys over my small one.
I would however do almost everything else differently........

hoverfly · 06-13-2013, 05:23 AM

Crazy, don't get too uptight about it, it isn't worth it. I played in one band after the next, starting when I was about 13 or 14, tried again and again to become rich and famous, only to discover that regardless how good you were, if you were overweight as I was even back then, your chances would be greatly reduced.

I am sure there is at least one other thing you are good at or will become so if you put your mind to it, so concentrate on that instead of the spilled milk. I did and it worked a treat, besides, nothing stops me from picking up an instrument with friends. Just that I am not making money from it.

One other thing, pardon if I just forgot about you having mentioned it previously but, you have a girlfriend now? Well, things can't be bad then, can they. Anyway, pleased to hear it.

crazy8 · 06-13-2013, 01:37 PM

Thanks man.
Im not bitter about quitting. I knew it was not the right road for me. Of course i wish things were different, but they are not so it is what it is and i accept that.
I just loved playing. It never got that far for me to think about the money aspect. It was always for the love of the game. Plus it felt really awesome to be good at something.
I totally agree with you about putting your mind into something else. I have other things to be bitter about too, not only hockey. So if i go down that road i'm just going to be depressed all the time lol.

hoverfly · 06-13-2013, 02:50 PM

Not much of a sportsman myself, haven't been since I was about 13 and came second in a 30 mile walk for charity. I used to be a reasonably good fast bowler but with me having smoked for nearly 40 years, I guess I'd just fall over backwards panting these days. You just can't win them all, can you.

But I am an excellent cook and baker, that's for sure and now that I am fully retired and this time nobody is going to collar me back into some contract, that's for sure, I have all the time in the world to concentrate on that. Last week we ate nothing but half a dozen different curries and the past few days it was kebab time with various ingredients.

Talking of which, time for a bacon sarnie, topped with some nice HP sauce I think.

Road · 06-24-2013, 02:17 AM

I been thinking about this lately...but I basically missed out on life, and still am. Because I dont/never had a girlfriend at 23..Its like..i haven't completely experienced life...and I feel I missed out on my teen years. I actually think my overweightness and not my size holds me back.
I hate being obese more than anything. Maybe if I was skinny, a girl would give me a shot..i dunno but I look back at think what horrible teen years I had. I DID NOTHING. no hanging with friends, partying, girls..nothing. I feel as my life has been a waste.

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Virgin4Inch · 11-05-2013, 03:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Road

I been thinking about this lately...but I basically missed out on life, and still am. Because I dont/never had a girlfriend at 23..Its like..i haven't completely experienced life...and I feel I missed out on my teen years. I actually think my overweightness and not my size holds me back.
I hate being obese more than anything. Maybe if I was skinny, a girl would give me a shot..i dunno but I look back at think what horrible teen years I had. I DID NOTHING. no hanging with friends, partying, girls..nothing. I feel as my life has been a waste.

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No offense buddy but you're 23. I'll be 55 in a couple of weeks and my life has pretty much been the same. I did get to date a couple of girls when I was 19/20 and I was in a sexless, intimacy free relationship for 8 years but still my life has been pretty much sex free.

If you counted up all the time I've had access to a females body over the last 55 years it would probably be less than an hour.

So as sad as I feel for your predicament (especially your weight problem) if you think it sucks at 23 just wait till you get to my age. Especially when you have nothing else in your life to make up for it.

02-16-2013, 04:06 AM	#31
Road Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 671	I understand a lot of what you guys went through, are going through...my life isnt the greatest, but I dont let it hold me down completely. Also a virgin soooooo yea. __________________ "If you let it get to you, you will be opening a door of self loathing, despair, and hatred. Look beyond and accept. It will do more to develop your self-acceptance than nearly anything else. We all must learn the lesson of accepting ourselves. If we don't accept ourselves, for what we are, then how can we expect anyone else to accept us?"

06-13-2013, 05:23 AM	#35
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Crazy, don't get too uptight about it, it isn't worth it. I played in one band after the next, starting when I was about 13 or 14, tried again and again to become rich and famous, only to discover that regardless how good you were, if you were overweight as I was even back then, your chances would be greatly reduced. I am sure there is at least one other thing you are good at or will become so if you put your mind to it, so concentrate on that instead of the spilled milk. I did and it worked a treat, besides, nothing stops me from picking up an instrument with friends. Just that I am not making money from it. One other thing, pardon if I just forgot about you having mentioned it previously but, you have a girlfriend now? Well, things can't be bad then, can they. Anyway, pleased to hear it. __________________ Feeling a little peckish? Visit The Official Food Porn Thread Click here if you need help uploading pictures. Guide to Uploading and Managing your Attachments Click here if you need to contact the forum staff. List of Forum Staff

06-13-2013, 02:50 PM	#37
hoverfly Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: East of England Posts: 1,567	Not much of a sportsman myself, haven't been since I was about 13 and came second in a 30 mile walk for charity. I used to be a reasonably good fast bowler but with me having smoked for nearly 40 years, I guess I'd just fall over backwards panting these days. You just can't win them all, can you. But I am an excellent cook and baker, that's for sure and now that I am fully retired and this time nobody is going to collar me back into some contract, that's for sure, I have all the time in the world to concentrate on that. Last week we ate nothing but half a dozen different curries and the past few days it was kebab time with various ingredients. Talking of which, time for a bacon sarnie, topped with some nice HP sauce I think. __________________ Feeling a little peckish? Visit The Official Food Porn Thread Click here if you need help uploading pictures. Guide to Uploading and Managing your Attachments Click here if you need to contact the forum staff. List of Forum Staff

06-24-2013, 02:17 AM	#38
Road Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 671	I been thinking about this lately...but I basically missed out on life, and still am. Because I dont/never had a girlfriend at 23..Its like..i haven't completely experienced life...and I feel I missed out on my teen years. I actually think my overweightness and not my size holds me back. I hate being obese more than anything. Maybe if I was skinny, a girl would give me a shot..i dunno but I look back at think what horrible teen years I had. I DID NOTHING. no hanging with friends, partying, girls..nothing. I feel as my life has been a waste. . __________________ "If you let it get to you, you will be opening a door of self loathing, despair, and hatred. Look beyond and accept. It will do more to develop your self-acceptance than nearly anything else. We all must learn the lesson of accepting ourselves. If we don't accept ourselves, for what we are, then how can we expect anyone else to accept us?"

05-22-2013, 10:06 AM	#32
salmonpink Tiny Dick Novice Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 34	I'm a kind of pessimist, still I think you should have continued your sport. Now imagine you have become a star known over the world and everyone knows you're small down there. So what? Its courage that matters. If I were like that, I would publish my nude pics so theere is nothing for the rest of the world to wonder. It's kind of erotic to you know. And I think there would be a lot of hot girls who would be dying to hook up with you -being the star you are. I'm not being nice to you but the world works that way. it's all about making a buzz when it comes to celebrities. having published sex tape made a career for the likes of Kim karadishan you know.. Hey, why don't you put some pics of you here? Thanks.

06-12-2013, 06:47 AM	#33
Desertdick Tiny Dick Beginner Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Central California Posts: 54	The ol' what if! Yes, it (having a small penis) affected my life in a negative way.....but NOT because I have a small penis......but because I ALLOWED it to. I avoided all team sports (shower issue), intamacy of any kind through High School and College, never much of a "guys" friend to speak off. Today, I realize I missed out on a lot of things....and even allowed my "short commings" to control many (if not most) of my life choices. All this because some ass hole in middle school laughed and humiliated me in the gym showers. I allowed this jerk, who today would have no idea who I am.....affect the rest of my life! I gave him that much power. I was always trying to compare my self with the immaginary man hood of the next guy....instead of on their or my accomplishments.....the true mark of a man. Some how I missed that in growing up what makes a true man....which 65 years later I realize has nothing to do with penis size! I so understand your feelings of not following through with your life's gifts.....it js a choice. But sadly, one that needs not be made. The size of our penis is not the mark of a real man. I am only sorry it took me so long to realize this.....my hope is that you, being in your 20's and any other young men could realize this at an earlier stage and not go through life blaming any and all lifes difficulities on your small penis! It just is not the case....if you do not allow it.

06-12-2013, 07:31 PM	#34
crazy8 Tiny Dick Ultimate User Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 462	Thank you for the kind words Desertd. I have a hockey stick in the corner of my living room, with gloves and helmet on top. My jersey hangs above the stick. MY gf and my friends have all noticed, every single time i walk by that part of the room or even look that way, i always have the most saddest emptiest look on my face. I cant help it. My friends still ask me why i never went on to play professional hockey.... To be honest, if i could go back in time, i would still quit hockey. There is just no way i would be able to handle all the shit i would get from other guys over my small one. I would however do almost everything else differently........

06-13-2013, 01:37 PM	#36
crazy8 Tiny Dick Ultimate User Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 462	Thanks man. Im not bitter about quitting. I knew it was not the right road for me. Of course i wish things were different, but they are not so it is what it is and i accept that. I just loved playing. It never got that far for me to think about the money aspect. It was always for the love of the game. Plus it felt really awesome to be good at something. I totally agree with you about putting your mind into something else. I have other things to be bitter about too, not only hockey. So if i go down that road i'm just going to be depressed all the time lol.