Alot Of Lurkers
 

This is to all the lurkers out there First Hello and Welcome.
There is no need to sit in the background being quiet as we all would love to hear your comments , opinions and questions. Quite a few forums die because there are a lot of members that never reply start or even comment no dialog at all. Now I am not saying you should reply to every post but at least introduce yourself after all you did sign up, The rest of would love to hear from you,
Thanks

I think that one of the reasons why not too many people post around here is because people are not sure what this site really is about. Me either honestly. When i first came here i thought this was a place where guys like us can find support and share our experiences. A place where small guys with insecurities can open up and feel safe to discuss whatever issues that may have.
Unfortunately (for me at least) there seems to be a whole lot more members here that are into humiliations and that type of stuff. I personally think that there is a difference between a fetish/sexual desires etc... and genuine need for support from people in the same situations. I can't see how it would help a guy with insecurities who comes here and sees other guys like him talk about being humiliated by wife/gf...showing your dick in public etc....its just two different subjects and should be kept segregated.This place needs an identity. Its either a small penis support forum or a SPH forum. The fact that its currently both is what i think is driving a lot potential members away.

Speaking only for myself, my vote goes to the first, fore mentioned purpose. There are lots of small dick humiliation sites that are more befitting that purpose. This forum, i believe, is better used as a small dick support group and hang out, rather than a sexual fetish niche. As crazy8 stated, somewhere to share experiences, thoughts, insecurities, and support. I just joined and am making myself right at home, so expect to have my 2 cents added, for what its worth.

Attachment 8802I have a small ding a ling that I have been ashamed of all my life and this group seems to be a place where can understand that we are not alone. I like to see your ding a lings and show you guys mine.

Lurkers are just a part of the experience to some degree at every site.