Anyone have any advice on how to build better self confidence around your penis size?
 

Anyone have any advice on how to build better self confidence around your penis size, and personal experiences on how to feel better about your small member?

Don't think about the negatives so much. That will probably involve lying to yourself, but people do that all the time.
Don't involve yourself in stuff like cuckold(real life or porn) or humilation.
Think about positives, at least yours looks functional for example.
Get skills outside of penetration if you are scared about sex.

There's nothing you can do about your size, so get over it and enjoy life.

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You can get a woman to say anything you want. How much she loves your dick for example.

Like one of the guys said, at least it works.
There is no feeling better. You either accept it, or work hard to change it. motherfucking period.

I say learn to appreaciate other things about yourself. Realize that your worth is not determined by the size of your dick. Also, as someone else said develop sex skills outside of penetration. Women, and men for that matter, are aroused and can have a pleasurable sexual experience through other sexual acts. Just be yourself. Dont try to hide who you are from a potential sex partner. I always use as a motto: I am who i am, and im good at what i do! good luck :)

I am 5 inches and 5 around so I am average.There are so many shallow women out their that would say its to small for them. It can be tough to feel good about my dick sometimes. They should teach women what the average size of a mans penis is in sex ed.

Do they ask how big you are or you tell them for some reason? The best thing to do is to not mention it or add an inch and they will probably buy it. Women are generally bad estimaters.

Maybe you could actively seek out petite girls too. Like 5 feet tall 95 pounds, could help with relative size.

From what I've read, Self Confidence can go a looong way. And well getting into shape will help that, might even make people(me) forget about dick size. Which is why this year I'm making the effort to join a boxing gym and lose 40-70 pounds. Well see what happens, I feel like taking a picture of my dick for before and after results.

:D Good one! It even speaks several languages.

After decades working in the mental health profession, as both a practitioner and researcher... I hate to tell you, but self-confidence is not built around dick-size, or for that matter any other physical characteristic for very long.

In a nutshell, self-confidence comes from being cared for by others and caring for them in return, along with successful life experiences. No other way around it, even big-bod confidence is usually fleeting, at best.

Accept who and how you are--basically. Be honest about what you want to and CAN change--start working toward doing those you can, be patient, persevere. You can get there in this fashion. All the best!!!

My wife looks like a Victoria Secret model with 38DDD (real ones) & she just adores my 4 inches. I've met plenty of girls who say size does not matter it's the man who is attached to the dick that does.

It's not about building confidence in your penis size so much as in your entire self. I can only speak for myself, but I have always had self-esteem issues about one thing or another i.e. my fatty torso, armpits are too hairy, I have no teeth, my arms/hands also small, etc. and some days I feel worse about those things, especially the no teeth part. I'd rather tell a girl that I have a small penis and have her run away for that then run away because I tell her I wear dentures so she may not want to kiss me or anything. yeah...what a freakshow I feel like sometimes, but ya know, I got lot of things about myself phsyically and personality-wise that let me know I'm just as good as the next man. Have to always remember that no guy/girl is the same either, and just like you, we all feel self-conscious about something too...I have to remind myself this all the time. Confidence has to start somewhere so when you're feeling low about yourself think of the positives you bring to the table, I'm sure if your friends could talk they'd say lots of cool shit about you so think about that, also think about taking chances...building up your courage and pat yourself on the back once in awhile too! Don't beat yourself up, such a total waste of energy and time man. Don't get locked in that brooding, self-pitying/loathing phase - that'll never get you laid, for sure. I know all this so much harder to do than I make it sound, but that's life...very hard road. Could be very sick, terminally sick, or unable to walk or see...I'm not trying to preach, just stuff to think about here now you go and rule your own life and don't ever settle for what you get either, just because you may think you don't deserve more.

You can be an overweight guy with a small size and bald. But if you love yourself and self-esteem is high, you will most likely be fucking girls.