bimiself

Try designating a 'date night'-Trying to see things the way they used to be. Both agree to leave all the problems of the world behind for those few precious 'important' hours, because I know it feels like you're in the worst situation in the world! Take all the toys you both have liked in the past. Remember the great times you have had with each other. Either find a secluded spot, even a 'cheap' room you have never been to. I know It's going to cost a few $$$ to pull this off, but it worked for me & my wife.....Kind off sparked things up & made us both realize the really important things in life.....And remember, just the anticipation of the date sometimes will even help.....but you have to leave your problems behind for a few hours to make it work! Good Luck-We're all behind you......or wished we were