PaintItPretty

My ideal size is one that is attached to someone who knows how to use it.

I think it's a shame that a lot of guys who have a larger than average penis think that their size automatically makes them good in bed. The girls/women who end up with guys who are well endowed but not well informed end up beliving things about sex and intimacy that are untrue and then they pass that information around. I've heard confessions from many of my friends (and other women) that they were glad their boyfriends/husbands were "big" but that they rarely orgasmed and I could tell by their tone that these guys didn't know what they were doing. Communication, intimacy, trust and love is the best recipe for an amazing sex life. Yes, it is harder for really small guys to find a partner, but for the most part woman who believe bigger is better are just parroting things they've heard from other women because they've become conditioned to feel that way.