So, how has this website changed you..
 

I got pretty drunk, did some thinking and wanted to make a new thread. How has this website changed you since you joined? I'm sure talking with other small penis men with some(one!) women changed you just a bit...Sadly I feel Im still the same with slowly changing. Before I really thought size mattered and if you were small tough luck. No wife, or GF, or whatever. But now I'm slowly learning to relationship size isn't everything.

Posts and links I've read always lead me to the same answer; every women is different. There are size queens, but there are also those that look past the size and into your heart, and that is most women. And for the one night stands, amazing oral and finger touching with go a long way..

So, posters, have you changed size you joined?

Lol sucks.

wow tinydick that sucks...such a bad luck dude....
from my point of view, this site made me think im not as small as i thought...i always thought i was too small, but now i know im just average, not as smal....i have always pleased my gf and my extra relationship fuck partners, but now i feel more confident about my size...maybe a lil inconscious, but it works better to me...

from another pint of view, in this site i found few persons to talk about things i find "hot" and i have nevr did it before, thi site has wake up a different side of my person...

I personally wish this site had more support for each other. I mean, yea it seems like a place where you can come and talk about stuff you cant talk to anyone else. But in reality. Most of the postings get like 2 or 3 responses and then die out. I wish people took their time while trying to help someone. I think a lot of guys who come here need some kind of emotional help.

tinydick4u,

same thing happened to me, wife found out about this site, called me every name in the book ... next day when i came from work, my duffel was outside with a note ... get out!!! so i moved out and just now the a judge gave me back my pc ...

in order t make rent i had a friend move in with me, he pays half i pay half ... now, at times we call some girls over and they just want to go with him cause his larger than i am so ... just out of curiosity i called a guy whore and he laught at me but said 'you're paying to tickle my ass so it ok with me' ... can you believe that ... now i'm paying cheap hookers that only care aobut the money and having guy whores at times so that i can see a dick ... it's official i;a bisexual now ... love to fuck pussy but love to be ass fucked ... my friend ... he's just to large for me ...

what can i do ..

Wow really? Seems like a major overreaction.

I havent felt much change except not feeling like having to hide size is a change

I don't think the site changed me, but it did give me somewhere to go that I can read about and talk to people about my little cocklette. I love seeing the picks, reading the discussion, reading the stories, and posting responses that correspond with me.

I guess it all depends on what your expectation were when you signed up. To be honest, I can't even remember why I joined. Having a small penis never bothered me much and having been married for just over 27 years now, why should it.

On a different note regarding the help that some members may require with their emotional state, that is very difficult to achieve via long distance anonymous forums. You don't know the person at the other end, so it takes a careful approach or you might find the offended or if you just brazen things out... you get the idea.

Also, I am sometimes unsure if what is portrayed to the outside world, ie. us here, is always as true as it is made to look. I won't go into detail, the persons I am referring to have their privacy too, so at the end of the day, little you can do apart from suggesting that people seek help from psychologists or other professional personnel and that is something where you very often end up getting the reply 'They can't help me anyway'.

The human mind is a tricky thing to deal with and at least as far as I am aware, there are no fully qualified psychologist registered here.

The only change for me is that I've found a number of other sites through member recommendations. I'm sometimes a little surprised at how casual some of the members are regarding their intimate relations with their spouses and girlfriends. If I were still married, I don't think I'd ever relate what she and I may have done in bed. (Maybe I'm too much of a prude.) Since some members seem inclined toward SPH, it's perfectly ok to say what such-and-such a person subjected them to; but as to intimate physical details regarding spousal relations - like I say, maybe I'm too much of a prude.

The site hasn't changed me much. I joined more by curiosity than a particular need. The cool thing though is that I met a cool chap from Britain with whom I often discuss cooking. Nothing related to the site, I agree. But it's fun to meet new people and exchange ideas and stuff. And that did change at least one thing for me! Now I know how to bake decent bread. :)

LOL. Thanks Jo but no flowerpot throwing.

I got some magic salmon recipes in return, to say the least.

I seriously need to kick myself in the head though for STILL not having sent that lambs brain recipe. I'll get on to that today. Honest injun.

Magic salmon. Intriguing...

No rush for the brain recipe. I still have to locate where to get a brain since I sure ain't gonna use mine. :p

Well, it is after all called 'Lambs Brain with Chilli', not 'Canadian Separatists Brain'. LOL

Well, that sure would spoil the recipe wouldn't it? :D

I wish I was able to cook like you guys. That's another thing women love, a man who can cook.

Road, what's stopping you from learning? Both Jo and I weren't born with the 'knack' as it were. Trial and error half the time, though well working tastebuds do help a bit.

Try doing something simple, it'll turn out fine and as time goes by, you'll gain confidence in your abilities and will progress to more difficult recipes.

Let's face it, all you need is a cooker, some pots and pans and most importantly at least 2 or 3 good knives (a peeler, usually 2-3", a meat knife, say at least 8" and a carver, again maybe an 8"). Just don't be fooled by the cheapo knife blocks with knives for a tenner. I never found one of those to be of any use whatsoever but neither do you have to shell out hundreds and hundreds of dollars, pounds or euros. Something in the say 20-25 dollar range will do nicely for years to come.

If you need some help to get started with, I am sure JoBleau and I will be happy to help out.

For me, cooking started at the age of 18, as soon as I had moved to the UK for the first time. No more Mum to dish up and as a student eating out just wasn't an option but neither was living on sandwiches for the rest of my days.

So, went out, got me some second hand stuff from a charity shop, grabbed a beginners cookbook from the local library and got cracking. After more then 30 years I obviously don't recall what the 'dish of the day' may have been but I guess it must have been somewhat edible.

To cut a long story short, cooking, baking, especially all the hundreds of varieties of German bread became a lifelong passion. On the downside... I became an ever so picky eater. Should you invite me over for a meal, be prepared for me telling you what I REALLY think. LOL

Getting into cooking and baking is a great way to meet more and new people, mind you, the thought about women didn't actually appear to me, though I have always cooked for those few ladies that I did strike up a relationship with. In fact, I did prepare a six course meal from my now wife on our first date at my house.

Over the years we then lived in so many countries, now that was something else. All the different influences, methods you'd never hear of otherwise. Travel broads the horizon they say, well, let me tell you, it can also add inches to your waisteline, if cooked properly. LOL

Naw, you'd do just fine and over time it'll refine your taste (should you be a bit of a fast foody right now). You'll even learn to appreciate NOT buying from supermarkets but, where available, get your stuff from local producers. You would not believe just how educational this can turn out to be. From your first attempts at knocking up your first omelette to learning a lot about agriculture, to the benefits of organic farming and eating. Believe me, one thing leads to another.

Just ask JoBleau, some things I mentioned in our email exchanges sent him of on huge wild-goose chases across the web.

And, at the end of the day, there are few things as rewarding as sitting down for a meal you prepared yourself, even if a first attempt might not turn out at 5 star level but we live and learn.

Many do, indeed. But some others are afraid of that. Believe it or not, I lost a couple of girls because I could cook better than them. It didn't even went past the 1st meal. :(

Yet, the idea is not primarily to cook for girls but for yourself. As Hoverfly mentioned, I too learned early simply because of the necessity to eat something decent.

Most importantly, first try to do things you like. You then can compare with what you had before and adjust. And cooking is by no way an exact science. You can be very creative if you want.

If you'd like to try some simple recipes, I'd be happy to post a couple and I'm sure Hoverfly will put is grain of salt in as well.

I most certainly would. I have tons of tried and testes recipes in PDF files, some even with lovely mouth watering pictures. LOL

mmmm! Wondering if porn food pictures are allowed here...:D

Only if you can assure us that the displayed items are of legal age, ie. at least 18 years of age. LOL

Probably why there is so many wieners floating on the site! :p

:D :D :D

Great one.