It bugs me when..
 

I hate it when someone who is not small, considers themself small. I mean really, you can see on here what small is, and there are people who have a cock they can barely wrap their hand around, and think it is not that big.

Small is relative. Ron Jeremy is small compared with some guys. We all have our own phobias but to otherswithout the same phobia, we just seem fixated.

Im with big there has been an average set through research, 5.5. So even if you think you're small but measure 6 inches you are not small you are big and if you are 3.75 like me, small.

Its just like when someone that is not fat calls themself fat...being a fat guy, hearing that annoys the crap out of me, because they do. not. know.

Same here 5'7" 252 38% body fat

6'0'' 270, 37% myself

4-5 inches, which I am = smaller than average.
Therefore, it's small.
Even guys a little bigger than the average can be classed as small, if they live in an area where they know all their friends or family members are bigger than them. It's all a psychological thing, it's not set in stone exactly what small means.

I get your point BigA but as I have said somewhere else, there is no rule against someone with a large penis signing up.

Concerning the definition of what small is... I think that is more a way of how people perceive themselves and of course what internet experience they have. According to most porn sites you are small, unless you can wrap your dick around your leg and then some.

Live and let live, that's what I'd say.

im with this guy, before i entered this forum i always thought i was small, and i was smaller than many of my friends and my brother for example (he has a big fat cock, more than 7 inches...).
I am beetween 5.5 and 6 inches, but my cock is too thin and thats were i feel im small, my gf and my other lovers have told me i was thin, in lenght is ok, but thin...
Now, before knowing lots of really small to tiny guys i know im not as small as i thought and it makes me feel a lil more confident about my size...
Sorry if i bothered any of the tinies here, but i feel small too sometimes...

Well i feel better since joining (please don't take that the wrong way fellas) i'm 5'9" 295 26% body fat with 5.5" which i have the opposite of Yorch saying it's thick but the length is lacking somewhat but here i found is that i guess i'm actually on the bigger end of the spectrum here but what Big is saying goes both ways i use to frequent a large penis forum that is filled with smaller men who post just to try and get a response which in turn was greeted with alot of "why are you even here?" type questions....whether you realize your big or small someone will always be there to try and get a response from the other side it's the way of the interwebz and sometimes these men feel they need to be here even with a 7" if they've fallen victim to "size queens" or been cheated on by someone strictly because of size or how the sex was or as stated before been around plenty of huge dicked men their confidence could be shattered and what we would perceive as a huge cock they see as small an feel they can relate to use......I think sometimes we let our own penis envy cloud our judgement and get mad because we like to think "man i'd love to be that size".......

I understand all this....Large guys are more than welcome to be here, but just don't put up a picture and say 'what do you think of my small one?' when being on this site for 3 seconds, you know what you are up against.

Not that I am the genius of all penises, but I mean, whether having someone say something to you or not, you have to have a rough idea as to where you are on the cock spectrum....or I suppose you could just throw a picture up on here of your kielbasa, and we will make it official :)

No worry buddy. Everyone is entitled to his own feelings.