Whats the point in living if you have a small penis
 

Considering that its almost impossible to get married and start a family if you have a small penis, whats the point in even living?

The question is, do you want your glass to be half full or half empty.

We've been married for +25 years, have two daughters, three grandsons and at the age of 52 a sex life that befits a bunch of 25 year old porn stars. So much then for 'almost impossible'. The emphasis is on the word 'almost', not impossible.

Oh, did I mention that I too have a small penis?

You need to work on your self esteem or you'll go under in a dog eat dog world.

Joe, the question you pose suggests to me you're feeling pretty down at the moment. I am sure there is much in your life you can be proud of and it would do you good to focus more towards the positive than the negative. I'm sure you'll get plenty of positive help here to help you enjoy your life.

The reason for living is that you are more than just a cock. You have a mind, a heart, and a soul that allows for intimacy on many different levels. Be a good man, treat a woman well and you can have the things that you want. I am proof.

There are some women who will love you for who you are and not for the size of your tool.
Don't get discouraged.

No one is going to love you if you don't love yourself first.

I seriously doubt women hate you. If they do, I guarantee it has nothing to do with your dick.

Look man. Im not going to give you cliche asnwers here.
You ask whats the point of living with a small penis, the answer depends entirely on yourself.
If you ask me, i would tell you there is no point at all. I hate life because of this, and will never be able to be happy. I hang on to others things that make my life slightly worth living.
Now somebody else might say that having a small penis is not a problem at all. Some men are truly happy, go figure.
You can very well start a family and get married. Thats 100% not matter how small, you can always find a girl that will want to be with you. You can make kids, buy a house, get a dog and be happy.
Question is, is this your idea of happyness? Because if it is, then you have nothing to worry about. You will find that eventually.
For someone like me, happyness is a totally different scenario. A scenario that i will never be able to have, being cursed with my small dick.
But all in all, i agree with one of the posters above me. Its probably been a bad day for you, so you may be more bitter then usual. Just dont do anything stupid on a hot head.

@Crazy8: Good reply Crazy8, apart from me still disagreeing about the sexual side of life. But be that as it may.

@Joe1257: Take Crazy's advice, don't go doing anything stupid that you are unlikely to have the chance to regret later. We've had a few members here in the past that went so far as to threaten suicide unless they found a way of procuring a larger penis. No idea what happened to them.

You may have answered this in another thread I may have failed to see but what do you call small? 2", 3", 4"? Some here consider 5" too small, regardless of what damage you can do with that.

Maybe let us know just how small you think you are.

I dont recall if i have ever posted that here, but i have had a few moments in my life where i wanted to kill myself. Shit, thinking back, i probably would have done it if i just had more guts.

I'm just curious as to what is your scenario for happiness?

He said in a previous thread he's "around 4 inches" which is not severely small in my opinion.

Bear in mind that this thing called "nature" that everyone practically worships could absolutely care less if anyone is or isn't "happy." I kind of think that a very small dick is yet another of nature's ways to help limit the population (like, e.g., being gay). Yes, everyone's supposed to be totally obsessed with "getting married and raising a family"; but that doesn't mean everyone's destined for that dubious bliss. The real problem, it seems to me, is that everyone wants to be like everyone else. Thank goodness not everyone succeeds. This world would be the most boring place imaginable if everyone really were like everyone else.

Probably why it's not a good idea to leave it up to nature to achieve happiness. It's better to do your best to create your own.



How does having a small penis or being gay limit the population?

I would say war and decease does that job a lot better

getting married and raising a family a dubious bliss? hardly

While a small penis probably won't, I have yet to see a gay couple produce a child. But considering the rate at which the planet population is growing, that's probably a good thing.

War sure does (help?!?!... sic:eek:) I think because the growth rate is higher than the decrease rate. Not saying I condone war here.

Have a look at this: Population growth - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

During the year 2011 according to estimates:

135 million people will be born
57 million people will die and
78 million people will increase the world population.

Yes it is definitely not worth topping yourself just becauseyou have a small pecker.

To be perfectly honest, I only started even thinking about size as an issue when I became a member here. Not once in the last quarter of a century have I ever even considered feeling sorry for myself, which honestly, I still don't.

It is what it is, there are no two ways about it and there is nothing you can do to make it bigger (if there was, everybody would have a big penis by now given the daily penis enlargement email flood).

I won't again go into the 'you can have a really great sex life, regardless of your size' bla bla over and over again but at the end of the day... it is true.

Happily humping after +25 years of happy marriage.

I think the biggest problem for joe and those in the same position as him is not having a live in the flesh woman who cares about him to give him the reassurance that he needs. I don't remember if he has ever had a girlfriend or wife. It doesn't sound like it. Until that happens he's always going to have the doubts about whether he will be laughed at or rejected. Unfortunately to get to that point he has to make the leap of faith.

Too true, virgin4inch. Unfortunately, he seems to have given up on this thread for the time being. Would be nice if he were to rejoin the discussion at some point as without him this is a bit like 'pissing into the wind'. Pardon the expression.

I hate threads like these....... Its like askin a blind guy whats the point of living if you cant see...
Penis size isnt everything!! like everyone here.... See the brighter side of it instead of looking at the bad side.... how bout try to stop looking at porn all day long and actually go out and have fun...women are women .... there are lots of ways to pleasure and make a woman happy... and your dick isnt the only thing capable of doing that....

I never had a gf and I am still a virgin. I don't have enough confidence to even be around women.

And there's your problem. It has nothing to do with your penis size. Women like confident men, so if that part is missing, then you won't get anywhere with them even if your penis was massive.

I kinda know how you feel. I've been that way most of my life too. Mostly because I never actually got to be around women much apart from family members. I hardly ever socialized and so women became strangers to me, almost like they were from another planet.

If you have trouble approaching women as I do, I would suggest trying to meet someone online. It's not easy but at least it means you don't have to approach her face to face which is the difficult part for guys like us. If you can get someone to communicate with you and get a sense of her personality and you should be able to tell if size is going to be something she cares about. With the majority of women it won't be especially if they develop an emotional bond with you. You really need to get the thoughts about your size out of your head as much as you can.

It's like you're sitting in an airplane wanting to jump out but you've convinced yourself the parachute is not going to open. The only way you're ever going to experience the thrill is if you take that leap of faith. Sure there's a chance, a small chance she will be disappointed with your size but the odds are more in your favor that she won't give a shit. Especially if she really cares about you.

You have to decide, are you going to give up your whole life life just because of the slim chance?

Joe1257 is not saying life with a small dick is not worth living; he's saying life without a wife and family is not worth living. There are lots of bachelors and spinsters out there who would seriously take exception to that generalization. A wife and kids can be had by just about anyone; but that's no guarantee of happiness. If a person is truly so empty inside that only other people can fill the void, then I would suggest some kind of therapy.

See..... relationships are about risks.... what kind of relationship would that be if it didnt have consequences involved... almost all of us here have been rejected by a girl but we get right back up... and try again... in your case you just havent had the right motivation yet... and with all this crap that big large penises are better going around makes you feel small... i know what your going through coz ive been there... heck almost all of us here have been there... if you really want my help you can PM me anytime... i might have some good steps you can follow... im just one Message away....

Well done TD.

Dear Joe, Your message really broke my heart. Please don't do anything to hurt yourself. Penis size is not important. Many women do not care about it. In fact, having a small penis is exciting to many women. Please cheer up. Nicole

Nicole you are looking fine in that avatar of yours.
Hubby is small?

Hello Nicole,

Nice to see you here!:)

Just wondering if you remember me from Flickr?

JB

I made a family instead of small dick. I am 4 years married and have a 3yo son. My wife likes my small dick. I wanted once to buy her a dildo much bigger then my cock but she refused. I never asked about the cock sizes of her ex, but i am dying to know those measures. Before my wife i had only 3 girls and none of them complained on my tiny. No, no...second girl cheated her boyfriend with me and told me that hi has enormous big dick but she likes me! The only thing why i am sad because of a tiny dick is that i never had one night stands. I can't imagine myself trying to make some girl fuck with me if i am that small..that was mine only problem in life when we are talking about dick size...

Well, I have a 5" dick "on a good day if real hard" but probably closer to 4.5" on average. I have a hot wife and have had incredible sex with maybe 100+ women and some young guys too when drunk. Never seemed to be a problem. Granted though, its a very nice 4.5" dick with a big juicy knob.

Wow really...I have been married, have many ex girls a hot readhead for a live in girlfriend presently. have 2 great kids, and a rich and full life, the size of your dick does not define you. who you are what you do ...defines you. I hope you can work this out for yourself ...your really missing out .