Should guys with a small penis expect to not get laid?
 

Should guys with a small penis expect to never get laid unless they get extremely lucky?

Of course not, why?

Well, maybe yes, especially with the negative way you already phrased the question.

If you run around with a t-shirt embroidered with huge letter spelling 'I am useless because I have a tiny cock', yes, I guess your chances are likely to be somewhat reduced but if you run around with a broad smile and confidence bursting at the seams, most women are not going to ask you for your 'vital measurements' before even talking to you.

There are quite a few guys here that are either in a relationship or are married, so obviously there must have been something going on between them that made the marriage happen in the first place and it need not always have been sex.

Allthough I have no scientific proof for this but I am sure that there are still millions and millions of women out there that do not base their descission on who to have sex with on a ruler.

Don't permanently concentrate on the glass being half empty or worse, feature what is great about you, everything else will follow.

I've not had a problem getting laid, although reactions can be varied. I'm bi and generally find women ok about size. Some gay guys not so much! Others are cool about it and many get off on it. Actively looking for a straight couple three sum these days and my small cock is continuing adventures ;-) you are right hoverfly to just get on with it. I have a four incher and it does me proud mate! Tom in London
You can contact me on gaydar too, centraltom is my name there

Nope, not at all. Nor ugly guys, far guys, short guys, pricks, douchebags, nice guys, mean guys, broke dudes, guys with huge packages, medium sized.

Girls only want dildos and vibrators to fuck them. They don't care about companionship, confident personality, feeling loved and cared for, overall fun.

Honestly, 9 out of 10 women can only orgasm from oral. The rest is mind games, with yourself.

Guys who never go out and look for it are the ones who never, ever, ever should expect to get laid, because we all know damn well that pussy aint comoming to us.
By looking i mean taking chances, approaching women, trying internet, etc......
But if you seek you will find....thats guaranteed. There is always a person out there who will want to be with you no matter what your down fall is. And if you want just pussy then there is always escorts etc....

Thats sounds all well and good, but its well known that a small penis is usually seen as a disability and many women are turned off by it.

If you expect it, chances are it will happen. It's all in your head, not in your pants.

Disability?!?!?:eek: We are not disabled. And I've got some news for you my friend. Most disabled people have a sex life despite their disability.

I agree that its a disability. I felt handicapped all my fucking life because of this.
Nevertheless, if you look, eventually you will fins. No one is saying that its easy.

Hey crazy, has your current GF ever said anything regarding size. Do you talk to her about it?

And Joe, I don't even know if a small dick is a disability, maybe more of a mental case. If you really look at it, a good amount of us are about 2-3 off medium size. As if those extra inches are gonna mean shit. Do extra stuff in the bedroom, don't be a douchebag, and care for her, and no woman will ever turn you down.

We used to talk about it. She has been with really big guys before. So naturally, when we first started dating i was relentless in trying to squeeze some truth out of her. This is one topic that she never backtracked on, got caught lying, or gave me the feeling she was not being honest. She tells me im one of the best she ever had.....Ofcourse i can never fully believe her but so far she gave me no reason to doubt what she says. I guess that little doubt in my mind is because of me being me and always doubting myself, and maybe its because she did sleep with a bounch of guys when she was younger.
But i mean, at least half the times she asks for it. Sometimes she just pulls it out out of nowhere, like while im playing a video game. One of the most awsome things in life is getting head and playing ps3, i love it and she knows it. Our sex life is pretty awsome in general. Even with my little dick sometimes if im in the mood i fuck her so rough, she walks funny after and just wants to go to sleep.
The fucked up part is man, is that i am not happy. I want to fuck a whole bounch of girls before i sttle down. I wanna be with asian chicks, black chicks, spanish, russian, french, i just want to spend a couple of years of my life just being single and fucking a lot of girls.

Getting head while gaming, that sounds like the life! Haha. Being serious though, it sounds like your size isnt that bad, it seems it's all mental with you, and myself ofcourse. I sometimes can't get over the fact I'm just different. Nothing wrong with wanting to fuck as these women though. I hope you/me can one day clear our minds and see we are allright in life.

Nah man, its not all mental. I do have a small one. What i hate the most is that im pretty thin. I would be alright with my lenghth if i was even a bit thicker.
As far as your last statement goes, i hope that one day you clear your mind and stop procrastinating. My mind is clear man. I know what i want in life, and i know what i need to do to get there. I also know that there are many, many different girls out there who would love to have a guy like me, regardless of my size. See bro, you dont know that. And you will never know until you try.

Yea, I think I just got too much on my mind other than chicks. Plus, I don't even know how to go about meeting and talking a girl. I still think they wouldn't even want to talk with a some fat dude.

Oh come on Jo, there is me hoping at last to be able to claim a disability allowance and then you come along and spoil it all for me. :D

Road, I am on the weighty side too and have been most of my life. Still, just celebrated our 27th wedding anniversary on the 4th, so weight is not the deciding factor, believe me. Neither should your size be so, never been with us.

I've got a small dick and I get laid all the time. In high school, I had tons of girlfriends who all had sex with me, and the very few boyfriends I had in life never complained about my little three incher.

why dont you tell us more. How do you approach girls. What are their reactions to your small one. Did any of them ever go telling people about your size?
Im sure lots of folks would be curious to hear your story.
Why do i ask? Because its uncommon for a guy with small penis to say he gets laid all the time.

Well in high school, most of them approached me. They thought I was good looking and a nice guy, and I'm guessing most of them were either inexperienced or just horny. I used to always make sure that I stimulated their clits when having sex, and make sure that I give them as much pleasure with other parts of me other then just my penis. Some of them knew that it was small, but I was so good with them that they never seemed to tell anyone, because I thought of my self as kind of a slut with the girls in high school (which by the way, I'm not proud of). I started having sex at a very early age of twelve, and was taught by my 15 year old slut of a girlfriend at the time, so I learned at a very early age how to pleasure someone. The last girl I had sex with was when I was on leave from the military for my grandfathers funeral, she was a serious nympho who had the serious hots for me. I couldn't figure that one out at the time, but oh well... and she even told her fiance at the time that if I came back for a visit, that she would be having sex with me, but I have to admit that at the time, I was way hotter then her fiance, and she still had a thing for me. We had sex for three hours straight without me cumming once, which at the time I thought was weird, but it would only be five months later that I realized that I was gay, so that made that clear, but when I had my cock in her, she came so hard that it was hitting my socks, and that happened quite a few times. And my few boyfriends that I've had over the years all never minded my size, they just liked me, and now I'm married to the man of my dreams who likes my cock and my ass. I've always said, that if you want to please a woman, it doesn't matter the size of your cock, or if you can even get it up (which trust me, I don't have that problem) it is how your handle the lady (or guy) and being able to please them with other means like with your hands, mouth, toys. You can always make a woman happy as long as you know what you are doing.

The reaction is very variabe women. But with small penis, you can always get pleasure.

The question is asked wrong, should we not expect to get laid twice by the same girl is the real question. Your size is not known until u get to bed and after u get in u might not be refused bc of a good heart and the other can fake being happy but do they come back or not? Thats the question.

True. I'm certain if you mKe a women feel good during sex or when with her, she will come back.

There have only been a few women in my life I didn't have sex with too many times to count. Again, if you can please them, and make them like you for you, and learn some tricks for pleasuring, they will always come back for more. I could tease a twat with my hands and mouth so well, then when my little dick came into the picture, they were already exploding with orgasm over and over. *Shudders* Glad that part of my life is over.

I've not read your PM yet but at a first guess I'd say, this may be down at least in part to your current frame of mind TD. Things need to settle down, get back into some routine in life, adapt, adopt and then you'll be looking at it from a different angle I think.

The question is sort of posed in a strange way, but you have hit on something. We should not expect women to just spread their legs for us the way they do for men with big cocks. It just ain't going to happen. We should not expect to be able to just lay there and let our dick get a woman off from mere penetration like they cream on large cocks. But not get laid? No, we will get laid, and may even get laid again by the same woman, but we have to put a lot more effort into being charming, understanding their emotional needs, and being sensitive to the way their bodies respond use our fingers, tongues and work our cocks with skill. We will not have the numbers of conquests that men with big cocks have and our wives will most likely need a little on the side every now and then whether we know it or not, but we should have perfectly fine sex lives...just different than those blessed with a large package. Its a bitch and its unfair, but it just is. If you accept that then there is no need to worry about your size. I'm happy those guys get all the pussy they do without any real effort, but I don't have what they have and can't change the size of my dick. I have just owned what I have and adapted to and accepted this reality.

To me, there is nothing perfectly fine about a wife getting something extra on the side. I rather be alone for the rest of my life than be with a woman who fucks other men. I agree with the rest of your post, your right, it is what it is and we cant do nothing to change it. All we can do is accept it, and cope with it.

The way the world and "god" works is unexplainable. I don't know anymore, my take on it is, just move the fuck on. Be happy.