ejaculation*question and tips needed
 

I feel I cum too quickly, does anybody have any tips for that?

And now for my question, how different is the time it takes to orgasm from personally masturbation to having sex? When I'm jerking it, it's usually 1-4 mins. How different would it be when I'm actually having sex. How would one last longer? I would hate to cum in less than 10 mins.

Road, allthough I do mostly with TD, I don't think there is the single failsafe technique that works for everybody. Personally, I find that long foreplay involving both partners, with extended stimulation periods for my pleasure tend to numb the sensation so effectively that I can last, not as long as I like but a fair amount of time.

Furthermore, all women are timed differently, as are men. There are women that will take forever and a day to climax and there are those that will orgasm all over you within 30 seconds, plus everything in between. I must have struck gold when meeting my wife, she can climax the first time within less then a minute, so for me it was always more of an issue of giving her the pleasure of multiple orgasms but I freely admit, she is an exeptional woman in more then just the sexual aspect.

If you feel you might reach your climax too early, try masturbating prior to intercourse, that should slow you down for the second round but will inevitably lead you experiencing a less pronounced orgasm. I wouldn't recommend using any sprays, I tried that once and thought, what's the point if you can't feel anything. I will, once again, give a brief mention of the use of cannabis. It stops your synapses firing at will and thereby slow you down too but we've had this discussion before and I didn't earn any applause for it but it does work.

Some men find that they have a very short or even no refraction period in their early life, maybe you are one of them, in which case, ejaculate and keep going. These days I can still manage up to three times but when I was young... blimey, four, five, sometimes six ejaculations in a row without stopping, was no problem.

I don't know if you can't just 'learn' to do that, you could always give that a try. I did, because I was ever so envious of my wife and thought, I want some of that as well.

Worth a try if you asked me.

Exactly what he said. What i also like to do, when im about to cum and i dont want to yet, i like to go down on my girl all of a sudden. She goes abosultely wild and it gives me time to rest a little and go right back at it for at least another 10-15 min.
To answer your first question, i get myself off very quickly. I had exact same worries as you but turns out its much different with sex.

I doubt theres any man out there that lasts 10-15 mins jerking it. I'm pretty sure we all take around the same time. I'm worried I'm going to cum within seconds when fucking.

Not sure if you understood me correctly or not, but i was reffering to me and my gf when talking about lasting an additional 10-15 min. As far as jerking off goes. I probably last around 5 min at most, all depends on how good of porn im watching. So yea i had the same exact fear as you had. Thought i would cum within seconds during sex. But nope, even my very first time i lasted for about 10 min.

Oh ok.