Whats it like to show a girl your small penis for the first time?
 

I am still a virgin and no girl has ever seen me naked, but I was curious what its like to be naked in front of a girl for the first time if you are like me and have a small penis? Is it an embarrassing?

Joe, you could spend a zillion years trying to envision every scenario you might encounter, only to discover that when it does happen, life decides to throw a wobbly and she asks you if you think her breast are too small.

Nothing and nobody can prepare you for it and she'll most likely be just as conscious of her own body as you are.

That's the beauty of life. Everytime you think you've got it figured, it'll surprise you.

I dont entirely agree hoverfly,
i think it all depends on a girl.
If you pick up a slut in a bar, im sure that she will not have the same reaction to a small dick as a good, normal girl would.

Crazy, I thought you all knew me well enough by now to take that as being read.

Depends on how drunk that slut is. If she laughs or something similar but still wants to fuck, is there a problem?

I guess the problem is that there is a difference between wanting to fuck a bitch, and wanting to choke a bitch.

The easiest way to avoid the scenario you dread so much is to just stay a virgin your whole life like I pretty much have. 53 years and counting. Of course if you should choose that route I guarantee you will end up hating your life as much as I do mine.

I don't agree with this. There's no way to tell how a woman/girl will react. Being a "slut" or a "good girl" is not a good indicator. Whether she has compassion is more of an indicator and either of those types of women can have or not have compassion.

Only advice I can give to Joe is change your alive around. As for Virgin4Inch, get out there man. Life is too short for this. Everyone would be surprised how much woman wouldn't care if you treat them right, I myself don't personally know this, but Im not going to let it hold me back. You shouldn't either.

Most women will just work with what they have once they decide to spread their legs for a guy. I would be surprised if she said anything other than its just fine for her. Whether you get another shot or not is going to depend on how well you do, and for the first time you should just focus on trying to give her as much pleasure as you can and learn about a woman's body and her responses. I would not have any great expectations, but do use it to learn as much as possible about women and how to please them.

damn you are lucky, I had to get US on my testicles before a surgery to determine if I has any hernia or whatnot. not so lucky for me, That jelly got me pretty excited hahaha and lets not mention the catheter. I caught a full blown hard on w that on... was it painful? no just felt like I was squeezing the life out of the tube hahaha

as for having a girl see it for the first time? I cant really say, some women Ive been with happened on a one night drunken stooper after a series of patron shots. Worked in my advantage b/c they didnt care, they just wanted me to go in and work it. little or not, just take a deep breath and tell yourself "life is to short" works for me and hope it does for you. My only problem is dancing w the ladies. I know some ladies when they grind on you, they expect to feel a nice package, thing with me is, i was 560 pounds and developed a fat pouch so minnie me maintained hidden, And when girls tries grinding on me, id push them off out of shame.
Since losing over 245 pounds,I still have a small pouch but still is pretty hidden, I dont back off or push them away anymore, with a small grind he likes to come out of hiding hahaha

TD, you are black then? Didn't know that. Not that it matters.

There is hope Joe. I had my first time when I was about 46. We were classmates and she was a virgin too. Wow, after that she wanted more, more, more. Before we had intercourse, I had exposed my erection while making out in the car. She surprised me by giving me head until I had an orgasm. I had never felt so tingly in all my life.

I am one of those "grower" not a "shower" types. You can enlarge the erection by using one of those suction devices. I have grown mine considerably in girth since the Army days. But, when flaccid, it wants to shrink back 1/3 of erect.

Bro1, nice job on losing all that weight. That means you went to the club while being very overweight...you didn't have a problem with that? I hav yet gone to a dance club or anything of that matter. And I'm 1/4 your size, I'm still a chubby dude though.

thanks mate! and yes I went out to the clubs and bars, I love music and danced like a manian throughout my high school years. The obesity didnt stop me from going out much, although I had my lonely night b/c of it. Some and very little girls didnt have a problem w my weight, NOW that I lost all the weight, they flock over to me. Def a good thing, but still getting used to haha. you should go out and let loose for once, have a drink and have a nice lady give u a good dance. :)

I remember my first time and thought I would die of shame but she never even mentioned my size we had sex and it was wonderful although I did prematurely ejaculate lolol thats life

Nice, see the key word here is "thought" but you stuck to your guns and did it anyway...sorry for the bad ending tho hahaha, and yes thats life.

It's bloody amazing ! Embarrassing and exciting all at once. Just do it, man.

Bro1, it's still fcking awesome you had the confidence to go out and do that, that does go a long way. I wish I had the guts to not care and be able to make a fool of myself. I bet your a tall dude though. Anyway, seems things have fully turned for you, awesome and good job.

Btw Bro1, how did women react to your size? How was the sex? Did the topic of size ever come up?

Yes it is quite awesome indeed. Being super morbidly obese my whole life, you get used to people making fun of you, or looking at you like your an alien. That makes us (obese people) stronger in life...At least for me and some others I know, and b/c your obese and go out partying doesnt mean your making a fool of yourself. Just act yourself, and let your personality shine as I did. and thanks, life finally has made a 180 for me and it was about time hahaha.

Some women looked at it and kinda smirked, we kicked it but I know I didnt do much to them, others looked and didnt even smirk, they went with the flow of things and thats about it. For me sex wasnt to good, I had a hard time b/c of my old size, I was grounded to one position (laying down) letting the ladies get on top and take control. NOW its a different ball game. Im the head honcho in charge and can take on various positions..sex IS AMAZING now!

I was terrified the first time my friends Laurie wanted to see my tiny 2 inch cock. I was 15 and she pulled it out and said "Is that it?" She got it hard and liked it because its super thick. She jacked me off good. After that I was ok with my size.

I think he was confused (as was I) because you said this

"She was a cute younger (mid 20's) black girl.This made it even worse for me because of the stereotype,black guys are hung."

that made it sound like she was expecting you to be hung because you are black.

But I guess you were saying because she was black she was used to seeing black penises which they say are usually bigger.

I think a lot of black women assume white guys are smaller.

Precisely Virgin, that was the part that confused me at first. Though I don't really care if someone is black, white or purple.

And thanks for setting the record straight, TD.

Why not checkout craigslist & get a woman for a nite or few hrs ? At least check it out.

Off Craigslist? most women on CL are looking for a FWB and the majority want someone who is bigger. I doubt many would be happy with a small one.

Unless your talking hooker/escorts. They can't advertise on CL anymore. Try backpage.com for escorts. Not that I have any experience in that area lol.

I just looked under escorts for my area and came across this

http://images3.backpage.com/imager/u...6/DSC01211.jpg


:eek: 25 years old. $150 for 30 minutes. I'm taking donations :D

Just kidding. There's someone even hotter that I want but she won't even talk to me anymore.:(

Well why not try match.com or eharmony?

Because they cost money and there's no way I'm paying someone just for put peoples profile on the internet. If POF can do it for free others can too. Plus online dating is a complete washout. Very few people actually find dates that way.

Virgin u made me curious like hell, what did u do to the poor girl? why wont she talk anymore? :)

This girl is pretty hot. More than worth the lousy $150.
Hey virgin4inch, pull a George Constanza and just do the opposite of what your instincts are telling you to do. Why not let this hotty be the first for you? Shes right there in your area, $150 and shes yours.

I didn't do anything that I know of. She's been sick and busy.


Yes she is hot. If I had $150 laying around waiting to be spent I might just give her a call. The pics could be fake but I would imagine customers would be a little niffed if the girl that shows up doesn't match what was advertised.

I'd rather do it with the lady I have been talking to but it doesn't look like that's going to happen.

yes ma'am.

No offence man, but your 52 and only have had sex once. Im not too sure about your priorites, but finding someone to love should be one of them. Maybe it's because you haven't had sex or love in so long you don't care anymore, but you should. Don't die alone, quit being stingy and fork over a little bit and heavily increase your chances on finding someone. And I legit bet match/harmony have better women than POF.

I really can't afford to spend money on stuff like that. I appreciate your concern though.

Just trying my best to help, thanks.