Why does life suck so much?
 

Beats me

Best to spend you time thinking about good things that you are blessed with than to ponder the bad.

DeeDee

Smoke a joint. Then it won't suck so much.

@Virgin: Does it really? What does suck is when I overcook an expensive roasting joint, but that's just my stupidity and I should have paid more attention.

I think it is the simple things in live that give me some of the greatest pleasure. Where we used to live in Germany, we had this red squirrel come to our house every morning about 6am. Now that really made my day. Every day. Just watching him/her perform his antics outside in the garden was pure joy and after feeding 'Red' as he became known, he was a feature of our lives for several years until he vanished one day. Maybe old age, maybe he got run over as he had to cross a road coming to our house.

In the East of England there are unfortunately no reds, just some greys and allthough they are classed as an invasive species driving the reds to extinction, they are beautiful creatures too. There are two that made their home in between the houses somewhere and they visit sometimes, which is nice.

Learn to see the beauty of things, a bit of a lost art in this busy world more concerned about 'shareholder value' then happiness. I like the idea that the King of Bhutan brought before the UN, he suggested that happiness should be one of the things that governments must strive to achieve for their people. Apparently, Bhutanese residents are amongst the happiest in the world. Can't verify that, never been there myself but a country where the head of government even so much as thinks like that does sound good to me.

I just noticed you list travelling as your hobby. Well then, there's a lot to make one happy and cheerful don't you think?

Little pleasures can reap the most enormous benefits I find.

Allthough, I have been smoking since I was about 15, if I remember right. I never 'used' cannabis in all its forms to 'make me happy'. I think it should be more about intensifying a good time but that's only me and I am aware that it is widely used as medical marihuana in the USA. So, if it was used for that purpose, I'd say a sativa dominant strain would be most suitable, it doesn't have the heavy stoned that a lot of indicas produce, leaving you 'couchlocked' wondering if you are going to make it to the fridge. LOL

I had cancer and I have MS plus a small dick but I get through every day with the grace of GOD

Ditto. I don't use it to make me happy. I use it to enhance life, so life doesn't suck as much.

Sorry about this thread. I was feeling bad when I wrote it. Going 53 years with only one sexual experience makes a guy extremely frustrated. I let it get to me some times.

Don't be, Virgin, we all have ups and downs I guess.

Just noticed, you are the same age as me. When's you birthday? I'll be 53 in September.

I'm telling you, you are at a perfect age to be rolling in the pussy. Not even getting laid, but just female interaction. There are a lot of older women who need a man. Check out match.com or eharmony, even craigslist. I bet 1-2 hours of proper searching and you would find 3-5 women interested in meeting you. Please look.

Friday I will be 55 and still not had sex. Life still sucks.

pay for it

Believe me if I had the money I would.

It's all about confidence fella, a girl isn't gonna know what's in your pants until after you have been on several dates and proper wooed and taken care of her and when you are getting naked for the first time, undress her first and make her come a couple of times first before you get your cock out when you do get it out put it straight in mate. I'm the same size as you in the cock department and I do alright in that department (most of the time lol) 55 years is too long ya need to pop ya cherry if I was an American is take one for the team for ya buddy 8)

The best response is from Shadow NYC. Good on you and keep up those positive thoughts!

You have not hurt until you lost your loved one of 58 years! We met in the Sixth grade and dated through High School. Then we married while I was in the Air Force.

I will never see her again. You complain? I miss my love of life!

^Only person who can complain on here.

So you think losing someone after 58 years of love. sex, intimacy and friendship is worse than living your whole life never knowing any of those things?

OK

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This is why I've never had sex and never will have sex.

[QUOTE]So you think losing someone after 58 years of love. sex, intimacy and friendship is worse than living your whole life never knowing any of those things?
/QUOTE]

Yea i think its much worse. Loosing something that you love and cherish is a lot harder than not having something that you know nothing about to begin with.
Besides, why are you still so grumpy? You in this situation by your own choice. You should be saying these things to yourself in a mirror, not try to look for pity and try to make it seem like you have it worse then every one else.

[QUOTE=crazy8;32960]Well you're entitled to your opinion as wrong as it is.

If having a lifetime of love and sex and intimacy with someone and then losing that person is worse than not having anyone or having sex or touching anyone your whole life then why doesn't everyone just stay on their own their whole life. Never date anyone never have sex with anyone and never touch anyone. Because eventually we all die.

If he wants to swap his life for mine I'm all for it. I'll take those decades of sex, companionship and love and he can have my decades of being alone and masturbating alone and the extreme frustration.

I'm grumpy because I hate my fucking life. It's going to be over soon so you won't have to listen to me be grumpy for much longer.

[QUOTE=Virgin4Inch;32965]I have not replied due to the nature of your comments.

How dare you say this while I hurt so badly.

You must be the Scrooge of Christmas!

[QUOTE=bmet;32968]Oh yeah I'm the bad guy.:rolleyes:

I'm sorry for your loss but you two seem to be making light of my situation simply because your wife died. Didn't you realize when you got with her that someday it would come to an end? either you would separate/divorce or one or both of you would eventually die. I thought this was something that everyone knows. If that eventuality is something that you would rather not bear and is certainly something you feel is worse than spending your whole life alone in a sexless life then why did you get into the relationship in the first place?

Ever single person that has ever been in a relationship has or will eventually lose that person to death or divorce. How many people do you know that have spent their whole life alone in a sexless life?

Seriously, 50+ years of love and companionship vs 0 and a lifelong virgin, is this really an argument.

Anyway, the thread title and recent twitter post clearly shows someone carrying an extreme amount of self-pity and total lack of sexual self worth so no wonder life sucks.

yep and women made me that way.

One thing is for sure, no one is going to change your mind, probably not even a woman.

[QUOTE]One thing is for sure, no one is going to change your mind, probably not even a woman/QUOTE]
Dude, you are talking to someone who does not want his mind to be changed. Any positive thing you have to say, he will come back with 5 negative rebuttals.
No need to beat a dead horse.

[QUOTE=crazy8;32977]I know, I don't get it, I have a small cock and have had a very nice sexual life, maybe i just picked the right girls

You think you can change someone's outlook on life with just a few words posted on a forum?

why the fuck would we need psychiatrists?

He's right nothing you say will change my mind or my life. You have 40 years of being made to feel like shit to overcome. Good luck.

[QUOTE]I know, I don't get it, I have a small cock and have had a very nice sexual life, maybe i just picked the right girls/QUOTE]

Its not a matter of picking the right girls, its about taking chances, even if its only with a few different women.
One thing i want to add. This is something that i grew to realize over the years, not something i knew when i was younger. Your happiness does not and should not depend on whether or not you have a girlfriend or a wife. There are many other things in life that a man should take pride in and get happiness out of. Having a partner by your side is just something thats suppose to happen. Thats how nature intended it. But your overall happiness depends on you and not her. if your a miserable human being, no women, no matter how hot will make you a happy man.
Not sure how much sense this makes to others, but to me, i wish this is something i realized long ago.