if its a mind issue..
 

If size is a mind issue, what do you recommend to break negativty on size issues? What would you do to boost confidence.

See i think size is not a mind issue. Its a real issue. I dont think lying to yourself is the best road to take road lol. I think accepting it and learning to live with it is a better way.
As far as confidence goes, please refer to 100's of replies i posted over the years.
STOP Procrastinating man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think it's half & half. Depending on the girl and yourself.