cumming just seeing her naked
 

Guy's this is not unusual for me since I have lifelong premature ejaculation. But it's unusual that it's happened the last 3 consecutive times we've tried to make love. I feel like such a chump. :mad:

Try to be more spontaneous, dont give your body a chance to even get turned on, tell this to her too. If your not seeing her naked first and then just get started or dont even get undressed.

It is probably just the anticipation of the act that is putting you over. Also if you JO, then do it before the possibility of sex no more then 1 hour. This reduces your likelihood of going to early.

wow that is indeed a problem, I usually can make it into her though ;)

Progress report. I came while laying on top of her. No penetration but at least I broke what was becoming a scary habit!

Progress!

Have you tried jerking off to orgasm prior to having sex? That might take some of the pent up tension out of your system and therefore delay your premature ejaculation.

My husband did this a lot for the first 5 years of our marriage. One thing that helped us was to not actually see each other. We started in the dark asnd he was able to slowly gain control of his excitement.

Well we were both virgins and for him this helped him to contain his excitement!

Just wanted to let everyone know that I've been able to make it to insertion 3 times since I last commented!

congrats! how did you do it?

Well 2 of the 3 times happened when were lucky enough to get it in with her on top as or right before I started cumming. The other time was me on top. I just managed to get it in in time before I blew.

Very well done. You have come a long way.

ive done this more times than i can count, idk why but it does suck. ive tried jackin off before hand, but i still cum super fast.

If I think about it too much just as I'm trying to get it inside her, getting overexcited, will cause me to ejaculate upon entry.
This is Double Jeopardy, small penis that cums too quickly.

tinyNquick - why not try making it part of your love-making? Get her to give you a handjob or blow you from the start, then just keep caressing (her!!) until you're ready to go again (say, 2 minutes :D)

Just because you've cum once doesn't mean you have to stop. Typically, the next time takes longer. Also, I worked with college couples for years dealing with this, if you AND your partner can find a competent counselor, go together, and are willing to follow the protocol, this can be dealt with successfully... IF both of you are willing to cooperate with the procedures... ALL THE BEST!!!