Serious question about dating?
 

I need your help and opinnions on something. I like this girl and we have went out a few times. I am freaking out because I want to have sex with her but I am afraid for her to find out about my size. I am not even 3 1/2 inches fully erect and I know she has been with guys before. My question is should I tell her ahead of time like before we take our clothes off or get intimate or just wait and let her find out. I am serious this is too much pressure and then I have a problem cumming really fast. I just don't want to be a failure. I am 23 and I don't have that much experience with girls.

That is some of the best advice I have ever got! Thanks I will do that! Now I'm not stressing over it so much!

That is if you are good at oral. She will probably want some dick eventually, I guess let her find out on her own then you will get the most honest reaction.

I have to disagree.
I think before getting intimate with her you should concider few factors.
First, do you have mutual friends, live in the same area, go to same college?
You need to estimate the damage before anything happens. If she is local, you should really take your time before letting her find out your secret. Once she knows and things go wrong, every one will know. So get to know her, find out what kind of person she is. Find out if she really like you. If you both indeed like each other then maybe you should take a chance.
Tell her beforehand. Explain the situation. Ask her if size ever matter to her. Tell her that you think she is absolutely amazing. Work up some game and tell her before anything goes down.
You dont want to see any surpirses on her face man, it can scar you for life. And you dont want her telling everyone about you. So take caution.
But all in all, im glad that you are tying man. Good for you. Believe me, if not her then somebody else. You will find the right girl eventually. Just dont lay all your egss into one basket.
Best of luck

Thanks crazy 8! That is alot to think about. I am a virgin and she has been with guys before, I'm sure bigger than me and maybe even had huge. You gave me some good insite. I wasn't thinking that far down the road!

lol like a contingency plan because of a small penis. Unfortunately it can be necessary.
But who knows, maybe she has already had a guy smaller than you.

Mate what a good thread, some of these ideas are top notch and will use them myself. I myself have gone over scenarios like this before.

First off, I believe he already knows what type of girl she is, and even if she seems bitchy I got a plan. Here's how this goes down for me everytime (I know things might not work out but it sounds safe). As Things are getting hott get on top of her and kiss her very sexy. Work youre way down to her neck, onto her stomach, slightly kiss the vagina and keep on touching her body as you work to her feet. Then make your move, and give the best oral possible, I mean do research on what they love, I did. Important part is to start slow, work the clit and couple mins in g-spot rub. Usually three inches on the top part of the vagina. When she cums all over and says it was amazing say you love to orally pleasure woman, and slowly work it in..but don't just out and say you have a small penis, try to make it seem youre not sure about your size. This is the tricky part, if she's turned on/loved the oral/doesn't care about size/generous she will suck that dick till you explode! Lol, well that's how it's gone over in my head countless times...always works..

As for the contingency plan, woman can fuck you over but if your friends find out just use one of the oldest trick "I dunno what that crazy bitch was talking about." or "You wernt complaining when you were sucking on it!" and turn it on her. Crazy girls happen to everyone and even if a dudes big or good size theyre going to scream "small dick" after a bad breakup.

A contingency plan is always a good idea.
All of us live in fear of people finding out or secret, correct? What way worse then to have a girl spread the rumors. She is not the last girl on the planet. And if he evaluates the sistuation, and decides she might tell everyone, then why go for it? Sex is a great thing. But something like that getting out could mean bigger problems then waiting a little while longer to loose the v card.
I would personally recommend for any small guy doing it for the first or second time do it with a stranger. Or at least someone that does not run in your circles.

True. Also they say dating friends never ends well. But I wonder if because we have small sizes how different are we than a man with a normal size? Are we more nice men, the forgiving type, the shy type, unconfident? Are we angry at life, ourselves, uncheating type, or take pussy whenever we can get it? What I'm getting at is if were a different kind of male, how different should we treat break ups and other similar matters?