Sixincher

Me? Still married but secretly bi. Enjoy gay scene more and more. I am getting more comfortable with larger men handling me and vice versa. ALso like handling smaller men and of course, balls fondling.

crazy8

Practice what you preach damn it!!!! Practice what you preach.

Road

Haha, I'm not really looking for a relationship or pussy right now. I wonder how much overrated sex is.

crazy8

Why arent you looking for those things man?
What the hell happened?
Sex is not overrated. Whoever told you that does not have any.
Are you waiting to loose some weight before you go out into the dating scene?
Or are you just done looking for pussy period?

Road

Mix of both..I give a lot of advice on here, but usually I have the same thoughts as them. Maybe because I'm sorta sick right now I'm in a depressed mode, but Im just not feeling it..also I think right now I would make a horrible BF. I seriously got nothing going for me and don't see anything changing.

hoverfly

Whoa horsy, whoa. May I just stop you dead in your tracks there for a second.

How can you say that, Road? Honestly, your post count wasn't gathered with comments like 'Thanks', 'Great' or the like. You have shown compassion, you have shown empathy, two traits that are not to be frowned upon.

So, don't say you have nothing going for yourself and I can only hope that this comment came with your current mindset. You sound like a nice guy that should get on with women. Maybe us small cocked part of the worlds population are not cut out much for disco shagging in the lavatory but at least as far as I am concerned, I've never been much interested in that scene anyway but there are literally billions of women out there who curely can't all be running around with a tapemeasure in their purses.

Get to know a woman, get her to go out with you, get to know each other, away from the subject of sex to start with and when it does happen, it will. The chance of being laughed at I found to be miniscule, if not smaller. At least I have never been laughed at.

As for age... no problem here. I am 53 and my wife will be 50 this year. She is still an absolutely gorgeous woman that, walking down the High Street, has blokes turning around after her. She never even raised the issue of size, ever. The only time in our lives we did talk about it was when we were watching a porn movie in bed together and I asked her if she thought mine was OK sizewise. Her only comment was that it would be nice if it had a little more girth and then we went back to having phantastic sex.

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crazy8

I think we all have the same thoughts in our head. Some more some less. Also, in response to another thread, i think that a small penis is the number one reason for guys to stay virgins longer then their peers.
Anyway, i think we all have had the same thoughts, same pressure, same axiety, same shame...you get the picure. Anybody who was cursed with this small dick, has not had a very good and happy life, for the most part anyway. The difference between us is that some of us have taken that chance, and faced our fears. Some of us have not. One thing i will tell you for sure is that it takes a great load of pressure of your shoulders once you actually get it over with. No more wondering how it feels, no more sitting there at night thinking it may never happen. It will take a lot of mental stress away, which will help with overall well being. Stress can fucking kill you. And being a virgin in your 20's is fucking stressfull, been there done that.
And besides, you say you have nothing to offer right now. So you want to better yourself before you start looking for a gf. But do you really want to be this shy virgin guy around her, or do you want to be someone who knows what they are doing. Confidence is key with women. Women are more willing to look past a guys shortcomings if the guy knows what he is doing, and is not shy and sitting in a corner. And plus, if you meet a girl who loves you for who you are, chances are you are going to want to stay with that girl. Sooner or later you WILL ger desires to see what other women are like, its better to get this out of the way now......
I in some ways agree with you that maybe a gf is not the best idea right now, but you should definitely, absolutely be looking for pussy. You want to better yourself? You want to gain confidence? You want to get out of your depression? Go have sex! Nothing else will help.

hoverfly

Nearly missed the whole point of this thread. LOL. Me all over I guess.

Anyway, has it changed me? No so much myself as my perception of others perceiving it as a problem. Hope that sentence makes sense.

The site had made me measure mine. Now that was a first in nearly 40 years. Not that it made any difference. It still works as good or as bad as it has always done.

It has made me more aware of just how much some men can suffer or sometimes inflict suffering on themselves over the size of their penis.

Maybe it has to do with the fact that I am an old fart at coming up to 53 this year but when I grew up, yes there were some size comparisons going on in the schools gym but I don't recall this ever being an issue for ridicule. Maybe the odd snigger in the corner but there was a bunch of us who started fooling around with some girls at my parents home and when the poles were raised, it became pretty obvious that when erect, there differences tended to be deminished rather quickly. Besides, I was the one who could masturbate up to 10 times in a row. They all found that rather impressive, despite it being small.

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Road

I think for you, it's just a sign of the changing of the times. Or, it could be a body issue for me. Not sure about you but I been overweight all my life. I think more about my weight than my size, but my weight is actually "visable" and dangerous as well. Thanks for trying to cheer me up though.

hoverfly

Same here Road. In private I refer to myself as the 'Fat old Fuck'. LOL

Not morbidly obese, thank goodness, but at 100 Kilos and being only 5'8" which I believe is about as close as you can get with 171 cm, it is rather visible. On the upside, I am rather stockily built anyway, my wife refers to my legs as 'footballers legs' and funnily enough, there is actually very little fat on them but my belly, that's a different story alltogether.

It's all down to the munchies I get after having a few spliffs. Beer or any other alcohol doesn't play much of a role anymore, not after a mini stroke I had some five years ago which left me with two major ailments. I get a migraine under certain air pressure situations and I can't really drink anymore. Half a pint of beer and I am absolutely paralytic and get really ratty and nasty. So, out the window the beer went. I really miss going to the local beer festivals though, I've always love proper English Real Ales. These days, the best I can do is pay my dues to CAMRA, the Campaign for Real Ale here in Britain, I've been a member there for the last 30 years now.

Well, shit happens.

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