Small guys and sexuality?
Do you think small guys are more likely to lean towards or be open to things that might be considered 'gay'?
Seeing as it can be common to want what you dont have, especially something with the social/mental influence of penis size, it seems as though small guys do away with sexual barriers to better enjoy themselves.
A good example of this might be cuckold. Although it isnt limited to small guys, the power dynamics involved usually mean that small guys would gravitate to this. Same goes with humiliation.
Another could be the importance of the male in straight porn. The general manly thing to say is that the guy doesnt matter and I am only looking at the girl. For me at least, I am much more likely to enjoy a scene if the guy is well hung. If he is small I may not be interested even if I like the girl. I'm not gay, but that kind of thing is relevant to my fantasies as I can't be big like those guys. Indeed all my favourite male stars are probably above average size by porn standards. Would I care so much if I was packing 8 inches? I dont think so.
I am quite open-minded about this stuff although what I actually like is relatively conservative. Its just I am not quick to label something gay I guess.
Do you agree, and do you have any comments of your own about how being small has impacted your attitudes towards sex/porn/orientation?
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