After decades working in the mental health profession, as both a practitioner and researcher... I hate to tell you, but self-confidence is not built around dick-size, or for that matter any other physical characteristic for very long.
In a nutshell, self-confidence comes from being cared for by others and caring for them in return, along with successful life experiences. No other way around it, even big-bod confidence is usually fleeting, at best.
Accept who and how you are--basically. Be honest about what you want to and CAN change--start working toward doing those you can, be patient, persevere. You can get there in this fashion. All the best!!!
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