I don't know so many guys think Asian women have smaller pussies than any other women. The size of a woman's vagina has nothing to do with the size of her overall body. Just as a man's body has no bearing on the size of his penis.
Smaller more petite women are probably more likely to have a smaller vagina but there's no guarantee of that.
I can't imagine what it's like to have a really small penis. Mine is about 5 1/2" and I've had feelings of insecurity about it. Mainly because of a few (very few) comments made by girls and women over the years. Even when women talk about size they try and reassure men with comments like "size doesn't matter as long as it's not too big or too small'. Well that's great unless you happen to be one of those that's too big or too small. Even the "too big" guys don't usually have to go too far to find a woman that would be happy with their "too big" tool. But you don't find too many women actively searching for the "too small" penis.
Penis size has never stopped me approaching women, there were other reasons for that, however I would still have those worries when it came time to get down to business.
Personality factors into this a lot too. Some guys on here who are endowed with small ones have still managed to build active sex lives. They obviously have enough self confidence in their personality that helps them overcome any feelings of insecurity they might have. Many people like joe obviously don't. I can tell from your posts that you are having a hard time dealing with what you been given.
I could say I feel sorry for you but that wouldn't help a lot I know. I doubt therapy would do much good either. I know some will offer words of encouragement and tell you not to worry about it and just get out there and have fun. If words could solve problems that easy we could cure some of the worlds ills real quickly. Wanna cure alcoholism? easy just say "alcoholics don't drink anymore" problem solved. Maybe not.
There's not much anybody else can do to get over the feelings you have that are stopping you from finding a woman. I guess you have to make a decision is being alone my whole life and never having sex or even being with a woman a price I'm willing to pay just to avoid the chance that the woman I meet will make fun of me because I have a small dick? the chances of a woman saying anything to you about it are pretty slim I would think. If she sleeps with you and decides that your size is a problem and decides not to see you anymore that might sting some but at least you got to sleep with her.
Then there's also the chance that she won't have a problem with it at all and she will offer you reassurance and acceptance which will over time help to alleviate some of the feelings you have.
I don't know how old you are but hopefully you're still young. You don't want to be where I am in your 50's and virtually zero sex life to talk of. It's not a good place to be believe me. You have to make the jump
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