Some cocks are growers and some are showers. I read that the growers tend to come quicker as just being hard is a totally different sensory experience the brain is not used to. The book said you have to train your brain to just get used to being hard. It said sleep naked, and during the day as many times as possible get hard and use a cock ring to stay hard but don't orgasm. I am a grower and I have never been able to stick with the plan to see if it works or not.
I agree with stickybob, I have a strong urge to come at the start when I first get hard. I have to be careful not to come straight away. But then during sex if I am getting close I just change position and that gives me a chance to cool down a bit. I guess I average at 20 mins. I am not sure if that is OK or still too quick? I hear on the TV and pop songs etc. you are supposed to last ALL NIGHT hour after hour.... I hope it is not true !
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