Thanks Road. Weight, same here, up and down like a yoyo. I gain in winter and lose in summer and allthough I am not much of a smooth talker, just an incessant one, I've had a relationship most of my life, before I got married that is. Neither do I think it had much to do with penis size, let's face it, we're pretty much all here for the same reason. What is important is, you must be self confident. Not to the point of being so overbearing that people around you start considering you a self advertising pain in the neck but enough to show that you know who you are and that you stand up for yourself and your worth.
As far as great looking is concerned. Who's to judge that? You yourself would probably be far too self conscious to be fair on yourself, so it is best left to others and that again is where self confidence does come in. People perceive you differently if you have 'it'. Find something you are good at and don't tell me there isn't anything, I wouldn't believe it. We are all good at something, doesn't matter what it is. Be good with it, be proud of being good at it and tell people about it, just don't go over the top and forget to listen to others too.
If you still can't get your head around it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with consulting a trained and qualified professional. Psychologist, given half a chance, are pretty good at this. Try it sometime, there's nothing to lose is there?
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