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Originally Posted by Road
Mix of both..I give a lot of advice on here, but usually I have the same thoughts as them. Maybe because I'm sorta sick right now I'm in a depressed mode, but Im just not feeling it..also I think right now I would make a horrible BF. I seriously got nothing going for me and don't see anything changing.
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Whoa horsy, whoa. May I just stop you dead in your tracks there for a second.
How can you say that, Road? Honestly, your post count wasn't gathered with comments like 'Thanks', 'Great' or the like. You have shown compassion, you have shown empathy, two traits that are not to be frowned upon.
So, don't say you have nothing going for yourself and I can only hope that this comment came with your current mindset. You sound like a nice guy that should get on with women. Maybe us small cocked part of the worlds population are not cut out much for disco shagging in the lavatory but at least as far as I am concerned, I've never been much interested in that scene anyway but there are literally billions of women out there who curely can't all be running around with a tapemeasure in their purses.
Get to know a woman, get her to go out with you, get to know each other, away from the subject of sex to start with and when it does happen, it will. The chance of being laughed at I found to be miniscule, if not smaller. At least I have never been laughed at.
As for age... no problem here. I am 53 and my wife will be 50 this year. She is still an absolutely gorgeous woman that, walking down the High Street, has blokes turning around after her. She never even raised the issue of size, ever. The only time in our lives we did talk about it was when we were watching a porn movie in bed together and I asked her if she thought mine was OK sizewise. Her only comment was that it would be nice if it had a little more girth and then we went back to having phantastic sex.