A bit difficult getting my head around this one, really. As far as I can tell, it's never happened to me but who knows.
I've only ever jumped between the sheets with a woman once I knew that there was something there beyond initial sexual attraction. That is one big ground rule for me anyway. Anything else is just bodyrubbing and that I can do myself.
As with any breakup of a relationship I think I'd be inclined to feel just about as lovesick as the next guy. I did when my first wife and I decided to get divorced. We both knew that having gotten married just as soon as we had turned 18 was a big mistake and still, it hurt and it hurt bigtime and not only me but her too. After all, we were living in a small town where avoiding each other was hardly possible. Plus of course by that time we had a daughter of 3 years that we both loved equally much. Not a nice time, believe me.
Splitting up with my next girlfriend from the UK was a different matter alltogether. She'd done everything to ruin the relationship, not to say that I didn't play my part in it too but one does like to put oneself on a bit of a pedestal there thinking it was all her fault. No, in the end I was glad to be rid of her besides, my current wife was rather feeling for me, which made things a lot easier and as the count goes, three must have been at least my lucky number.
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