As Road said, most women are inclined to wait for you to make your move, rather then be the ones asking for your number.
Football might not be the greatest womens sport so that might not lead to much but then I may be mistaken simply because it bores me stiff.
Films, well, you should have something to talk about there, also maybe whatever you have a degree in might be useful. Anything really to kickstart the conversation.
Try sticking with something that you are comfortable with and knowledgable in. I think it helps not to go out of your depth, women tend to pick up on things like that.
You are in London... well, if in doubt, dig up that most favourite of our topics, the weather. Everybody likes to moan about that, despite the weather in the East being absolutely wonderful most of the time. Once you've started, I am sure there will be the odd remark or two that you can pick up and go from there.
Still, I do see where you are coming from. It is not easy randomly talking to women you've only just met without feeling at least a little awkward.
Now, I don't suggest you try this but I used to know this guy here way back in the early 80s. He would walk into the disco at the airport and just ask the first woman at the bar 'Do you want to fuck?'. He insisted that he had a 50% success rate and that the outcome was usually either being slapped in the face or the lady in question dropping her knickers. I wouldn't know about how much truth there might be in this but then Essex isn't exactly known for its prudish females and maybe he did make his very own contribution to the large number of single mums around here. LOL
What do you get up to in your free time? Sports club, nature, pubs 'n' clubs maybe? It does depend a lot on the setting I suppose. Each area of activity might be a good starting point for a conversation. I've been married for 27 years now, so this doesn't apply to me much and maybe that is in part why I am successful with women. I don't try and I don't want to try, so, no pressure, just fun chit chat.
At the Essex Wildlife Trust there are a couple of very nice ladies that I talk to quite frequently. We've grown rather fond of each other, for me on a completely non-sexual level but there is always something to talk about and be it how the colony of water voles is coming along.
I certainly wish you all the best with your continued endeavour.
Oh, one thing... If you want a woman to smile, smile first. It's kind of infectious.
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