merryhelper

Thanks for the welcome. I do tend to "lurk"...lol I am not sure how good I would be at humiliation. (I am sure I could do anything I put my mind to though:> BUT it would not be honest humiliation at any rate.) I could imagine WHY it would be humiliating in many circumstances, but I don't really view it that way. I think that as long as you get pleasure from it and are enthusiastic about sexual relations, size is not that "big" of a factor. My hubby is an average size guy at about 8 1/2 inches, but lacks the enthusiasm due to pain and strong pain medications. He would do about anything at this point to have some of your enthusiasm!! I have never put a whole lot of emphasis on size, although I have had a limited number of sexual partners, being with my hubby since my older teen years. (that does not mean I am not experienced, just not experienced with many lovers) From what I have read on here, most smaller guys make up for there size with added enthusiasm and foreplay. I could honestly say, that with awesome foreplay and great oral both ways, and a enthusiastic partner, there could be NO penis and I could be satisfied. (what women gets off from penetration anyhow?) I would like to think that small guys would also have more compassion, as they know what it is like not to be "perfect". For many women, (at least ones that aren't out for just a "screw") sex is very emotional and some guys just are not compassionate enough and just concern themselves with getting off, this to me is a big mistake on the guys part. If you connect on more than just a sexual level, penis size should be irrelevant!!

I do wonder about a few things that I could not find much reference on here about. I see that many of you are open to talking about your "performance" and I hope some of you will answer. Do you believe you have just as much feeling in your small cock as those that have larger ones? Do you feel sexual? (morning hard ons/see a pretty girl and get a rise/feel the urge to masturbate, etc) Are you able to ejaculate? (I read a few guys saying they can but it is like premature ejaculation, as they dont last long) If you are one of those that cant last long, can your partner generally get it hard again fairly easy? Can you cum more than once with continual stimulation, if you get off too quickly? I also see alot of guys on here are homosexual, do you believe that has anything to do with feelings of "inadequacy". (I have nothing against being gay, as my close relative is gay) Do you enjoy having oral sex performed on you more than actual penetration? (I would assume there would be greater pleasure in a B.J. vs. little penetration??) Have you ever had hormone testing done and if so are hormonal levels normal? Do you or have you produced children by normal sexual means?

I would be more than happy to answer any questions you may have from a female standpoint:>

Let me just say, before any of you say that this is not the opinion of a "normal" female, I am quite normal. Was born female, happy to be female, heterosexual, not obese, no buck teeth or deformities, aged early 30's, considered decent looking (some guys would say I am pretty cute, but usually say it looking at my size D boobs.....LOL) So I am about as average as they come.