@tizzicle: Not sure, really. The best thing of course would be a partner that has the same fetish but coming from the other end you might say. That helps to avoid it becoming maybe boring for one partner. I wouldn't take a dim view of it but I am also a little unsure where a preference ends and a fetish begins. I guess this can be very borderline.
I for one just love a really good handjob. It is one of the single most selfish, yet personnally rewarding sexual experiences. And I am not talking about those 95% of handjob videos you see on the web with the lady literally doing nothing but stroking. If she has two hands, use them and don't just concentrate on the penis. There is the scrotum, the prostate, allthough I am only into external stimulation really, the frenulum, the Cowper's glands and then the shaft. I believe 'edging' is the correct term.
Two skilled hand can do some serious damage here.
Don't try and set a speed record, if I need some quick release, I can do that myself. Slowly does it and for a long, long, long, in fact very long time. Give me an hour any day. As far as the intensity of pleasure goes, I think it can easily beat oral sex and penetrative sex.
The trick is in finding a good balance between all or your partner might not take too kindly to this practice. After all, you must take care of your partner and if she is happy, she won't mind fulfilling your request.
Well, at least that's the way with us anyway.
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