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Originally Posted by Road
I see personality get thrown around a lot when asking what one find attractive in a person. What is that exactly, like what does a good personality consist of?
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I would of thought that was pretty obvious. Personality is everything about a person that is not physical.
PIP gave us a perfect example when she said she's attracted to a man who likes children and is good around them. That is a part of his personality. Women don't like guys who cheat or lie or abuse them. These are all personality traits.
Say you go into a bar and there is one woman who is obviously drunk on the dance floor being loud and flirting with guys, grabbing their asses and having a good time and another woman who is sitting quietly at the bar alone, keeping to herself. These are women with two entirely different personalities. Which one would you be more attracted to?
What makes a "good" personality is entirely up to you. Surely when you look at women you see more in them than just the way they look? There must be something about them that attracts you to them. The way the live their life, their sense of humor, the kinds of friends they have, how they treat or interact with their family or even strangers. There are so many personality traits we assess the opposite sex by.