Originally Posted by small_dik

That still doesn't mean the advice he has been offered is wrong...it just means he lacks the desire or courage to change his own circumstances.

I have a 2.8 inch erect penis and I have loads of sex because I pushed myself to face my fears and discovered that it wasn't as bad as I thought it was. Sure I have been through all the negative stuff that he is so scared of and I am still here.

I am not going to mollycoddle his fears by supporting his negative beliefs about himself. That will only guarantee he stays in his rut. If he wants to change his life then he needs to take action. Not feel sorry for himself.