i never lasted very long until i found out that cumming too early was a result of worries, if you worry about things like being small, not being able to get hard or not being able to pleasure your partner, you cum really quick. so i started taking it easy and not worry about things at least when in bed and god did it help. now i can control myself really well and the better i perform, the better i am the next time with a woman. once i was with a girlfriend that had problems reaching an orgasm and i wanted to give her one. i was in her for about 45 mins and reached my goal at the end. needless to say that the whole action took about two hours. she could barely walk when we finished and i had aches in my abdomen muscles and back muscles all day for the following two days
aaaah sweet memories