I am pretty sure we had this topic before but never mind, even I can't remember where it went in the depth of the forum, so here it goes...
We've been married nearly 30 years now and the 'Am I big enough?' question was raised only once, of course by silly me and my back then inferiority about my penis size. We used to watch lots of porn back than, mostly the rather stylish Marc Dorcel videos from the early 80s (what a difference to todays cheap and (not) cheerful productions.
Be that as it may, at some time I asked if she felt my penis was big enough and the only thing she mentioned was that she'd like a little extra girth and the issue was never mentioned again.
What made this all the more a silly question is the fact that my wife has always been hugely multi-orgasmic. 4-5 times she'd climax anyday and that beginning within less than a minute. Clear proof that I should have put my brain into gear beforehand, I guess but what doesn't one do all in the pursuit of satisfaction for ones inferiority complex because that I guess was all it was.
Don't ask me what the girth might be, I have no idea. It is what it is, period.
I guess I just got very lucky with my wife. She has the strongest PC muscles I have ever encountered with any woman and once I'd discovered that she was ever so responsive to stimulation of the g-spot, something that she had no idea existed, I (no we) had it made.
Anyway, as I said, asking her in the first place was about as silly as it gets really. A woman that just climaxed 5 times in a row should be living proof that whatever it is, it was good enough, lack of girth or not.
As far as length is concerned, this has never been an issue. I am well below 5", probably around 4.5", yet in certain positions and during certain periods of her monthly cycle, I'd occassionally hit her cervix, something she'd always withdraw from anyway.
Always remember, the most sensitive part of the vagina is the first 3", which means that you can hit all the right spots easily. As far as girth goes, this is something that also not the most important at the end of the day seeing that women can train their pc muscle to achieve a firmer grip, plus of course, if you can make a woman climax with a single finger, even a slim penis will do the trick but it may require at least some muscle training with some women. It also has one major benefit to a women too, a strong pc muscle group can enhance not only the coital experience but also aid women that have problems reaching climax from intercourse alone to do so more readily.
Now, if that isn't a win-win situation I don't know what is.
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