Yeah, it's a power thing. Looking at it objectively, the moment you encourage them to be cruel, you've taken away their power.
Every partner I've had has eventually got bored of me wanting to be humiliated. But, if I'm getting what I want, who's in charge? If a woman is constantly servicing the fantasies of a man who is permanently trying to be pathetic, it must be boring. At least, that's what my ex-wife said.....and she was a right evil bitch.
I've noticed that about impotence too. Most girls have a virtual hatred of limp dicks.
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