:D Good one! It even speaks several languages.

After decades working in the mental health profession, as both a practitioner and researcher... I hate to tell you, but self-confidence is not built around dick-size, or for that matter any other physical characteristic for very long.

In a nutshell, self-confidence comes from being cared for by others and caring for them in return, along with successful life experiences. No other way around it, even big-bod confidence is usually fleeting, at best.

Accept who and how you are--basically. Be honest about what you want to and CAN change--start working toward doing those you can, be patient, persevere. You can get there in this fashion. All the best!!!

My wife looks like a Victoria Secret model with 38DDD (real ones) & she just adores my 4 inches. I've met plenty of girls who say size does not matter it's the man who is attached to the dick that does.

It's not about building confidence in your penis size so much as in your entire self. I can only speak for myself, but I have always had self-esteem issues about one thing or another i.e. my fatty torso, armpits are too hairy, I have no teeth, my arms/hands also small, etc. and some days I feel worse about those things, especially the no teeth part. I'd rather tell a girl that I have a small penis and have her run away for that then run away because I tell her I wear dentures so she may not want to kiss me or anything. yeah...what a freakshow I feel like sometimes, but ya know, I got lot of things about myself phsyically and personality-wise that let me know I'm just as good as the next man. Have to always remember that no guy/girl is the same either, and just like you, we all feel self-conscious about something too...I have to remind myself this all the time. Confidence has to start somewhere so when you're feeling low about yourself think of the positives you bring to the table, I'm sure if your friends could talk they'd say lots of cool shit about you so think about that, also think about taking chances...building up your courage and pat yourself on the back once in awhile too! Don't beat yourself up, such a total waste of energy and time man. Don't get locked in that brooding, self-pitying/loathing phase - that'll never get you laid, for sure. I know all this so much harder to do than I make it sound, but that's life...very hard road. Could be very sick, terminally sick, or unable to walk or see...I'm not trying to preach, just stuff to think about here now you go and rule your own life and don't ever settle for what you get either, just because you may think you don't deserve more.

You can be an overweight guy with a small size and bald. But if you love yourself and self-esteem is high, you will most likely be fucking girls.