No, I wouldn't compare those things. If your hair is the problem, you can go dye it. Or you can go through the hassle of changing your last name. You can't really do anything about penis size.

However, when you grow up (and on into adulthood, which makes it that much worse) being hypersensitive to everything (such as, crying if someone so much as looks at you wrong, I can't eat most things or wear many fabrics because I'm too sensitive to textures, I have trouble being in bright light, if someone starts raising their voice it's painfully loud to me, and a million other things that would take too long to get into), that's something that can't be changed. That's something different in my brain; I can't choose whether it affects my life. It does whether I want it to or not. So to always be made fun of for that (which only makes the problem worse), I think is comparable to being made fun of for a penis that you can't change. But atleast you can hide your penis and no one has to know, and even if someone does make fun of it, atleast that won't cause it to get any smaller.

Thanks. :) As of right now, finances still suck, but I should be (hopefully) starting a new job next week that will pretty much fix everything.

And that's way too many women. I'd go nuts. Women are crazy. :p

I've had more problems in life because I am short than because I have a small dick. I've had a great, though different, sex life as a man with a small dick married to a woman who needs a large cock to get off. But I have been discriminated against socially and in my career (promotions, etc.) because I am short. Go figure...its a mean world out there.

How can that be? I am referring to the promotions. Unless you whipped your cock out but in that case it might not be size related but rather that they might have been worried you do that during a meeting.

Sorry, most of that is a bit tongue in cheek.

My small penis isn't the only reason my life is so screwed up, but its probably the biggest reason. Its something I always think about and is the main reason I have a hard time approaching women because of my size.

I see my old threads are getting bumped up....nice

I agree 100% with Joe. Being small may not be the only reason, but it is definitely the biggest why most of us are not happy with our lives.

Of course I was speaking of height, not length....

I can't honestly say the size of my penis has affected the things I have done in my life. Only the things you didn't want us to mention.

I did tend to shy away from activities where I would have to be naked in front of people. I was in the Navy for 10 years and had to shower in communal showers and I would try and time my showers when there was nobody else in there. But then my dick isn't that small. It's more in the average range but that didn't stop me feeling like I was small. For some of us the problem is more psychological than physical.

For some it's both. Some guys have the psychological make up that allows them to have a smaller dick and deal with it. Others don't. The reason I've had a life pretty much devoid of sex or female contact is a mixture of things.

totally agree with what you said in that last part!!!!!

For me it goes all the way back to highschool. I wouldn't shower in gym. I was shy and withdrawn feeling that there was something wrong with me. I had a hard time making friends.
I am alone and very lonely. Basically although there is nothing wrong with me I am so embarassed at my size I usually can't get it up in front of another person so avoid sex and any possible relationship.
It has ruined my life. Actually meeting someone through this forum would change my life big time for the better.

I've been a swimmer since age 3 and when it got serious for me during high school I remember being very self-conscious about showering with the other guys and having them bust my chops about not reaching puberty till late and being very underdeveloped. I though they would tell all the girls in HS about me. I stopped swimming when I got to college, by then I was super secretive about my little secret getting out.