Bindi, you just made me measure my fingers. lol ;)

Got photos?

Not now. Maybe in the future if I ever get the courage to. lol

Agree! 4 inches is good enough. Forget about surgery.

Concentrate on:
a) foreplay and working her clit masterfuly. Some women are ok with fingers some others with tonge
b) get proficient with 2 or 3 positions (missionary, woman on top, get the idea?) There are some other positions that don't work for me so rather than getting frustated I go for the ones that do

:) Build up confidence, even though it is easier said than done. Again, forget about surgery!!!

Mine's half an inch longer but that makes no difference. My wife will multiclimax any day, given that I can keep going for long enough.

No, you are just fine the way you are. Enjoy your pecker, mate.

My husband has a 4 inch penis. And, we have an incredible very active sex life. The trick is self-confidence in yourself, communication and finding positions that work for both you and your partner.

During the first year that my husband and I started dating, I almost broke it off due to his lack of self-confidence. He constantly put down his size and apologized to me for it. I finally sat him down and told him that he completely satisfied me sexually but, his lack of self-confidence was a complete turn-off. Since we had that talk, we have had no issues.

Brother Joe,

You will not find a girl of you don't go out and socialize. Read on building confidence, start going to the gym, dressing better, make a woman smile and laugh. Sex wise, you should look into giving her oral. This is something I'm going to do myself, buy a DVD on how to give a sensual massage. That should warm up 90% of woman and show how much you care. We have small sizes, we are going to have to try harder, but at the same time love what you have. It is as simple as that.

If you think we have it hard, imagine trying to make it this world as an ex-con supporting his family, or a junkie trying to go straight, maybe a college student down on his luck. I know those are weird examples but I do it so you can see what we all need to realize, easy isn't going to be an easy road. And making hugge problems of something that youre not even sure might matter to a girl isn't helping. I say, aim for shy, sweet women. I'm sure they are the least to care about size.

sounds to me u boy need a penis pump i got one been pumping for a year got perment gains from it and i was 5inches now im 7 yell may have seen some of my pics on this site but now im bigger i wiil post more on soon i didnt beleve pumps work at frist but i wasnt doing it right and i wasnt doning it long enough it works guys but dont buy the cheap pumps i payed about 200 bucks for mine

o and do penis streching to go with it

This is an oldish thread, but while I agree that 4" should be adequate in most cases, it's sometimes a factor of female anatomy. I know a couple of women with particularly fat vulvas. They can spread their legs wide open and you can't even see inside. They literally have to hold their folds apart to receive oral, etc. While both of these ladies were technically overweight, they weren't the biggest women I've seen by a long shot. It's just how they were built.

The answer is to just hang out with ladies who've got skinny pussies. (Or flat-butted dudes, depending on your tastes.)