What should I do if my penis is too small for sex
 

I cant have sex because my penis is too small. Is surgery a good idea?

What's too small?

around 4"

Not too small, you need to search out a girl with a smaller vagina. I don't think there are any effective surguries anyway. Use the net to your advantage, they are out there.

4 inches is more then enough. I am slightly longer then that, but sex works out fine. Maybe you should try first?

I always assumed 4" wasn't long enough to get any penetration.

Joe1257: No way is it too small, I don't know if you want to fuck girls or guys, but I am regularly fucked by a guy with 4" - it feels great and I really get turned on by it. If he can fuck my hole he can fuck a pussy easily. Go out and enjoy it!

The media and bitchy woman are the only ones saying it's too small. Also let me bring something up, "sex" just isn't sticking your dick inside her pussy. Play with her slighty, work the clit, massage the pussy, give her a footrub, play with the nipples, etc, etc. There are countless things you can do to get her screaming that doesnt involve your dick. And if she says it's too small for her vagina, bluff with some anal and find out how painfully things can get with a 4 incher.

Mine is only 4" but ...
 

I can muster only 4" erect but I have had a long , prolific and generally very satisfying sex life - a larger cock size can definitely be a bonus for a number of reasons but more important is your sexual skills - good foreplay, technique, longevity, quick recovery time and paying attention to what your partner likes (or dislikes) - a small cock perhaps has to try a bit harder to please but it is definitely do-able

4 inches isn't too small. Think about it. People penetrate with fingers all the time, and those are less than 4 inches.

Bindi, you just made me measure my fingers. lol ;)

Got photos?

Not now. Maybe in the future if I ever get the courage to. lol

Agree! 4 inches is good enough. Forget about surgery.

Concentrate on:
a) foreplay and working her clit masterfuly. Some women are ok with fingers some others with tonge
b) get proficient with 2 or 3 positions (missionary, woman on top, get the idea?) There are some other positions that don't work for me so rather than getting frustated I go for the ones that do

:) Build up confidence, even though it is easier said than done. Again, forget about surgery!!!

Mine's half an inch longer but that makes no difference. My wife will multiclimax any day, given that I can keep going for long enough.

No, you are just fine the way you are. Enjoy your pecker, mate.

My husband has a 4 inch penis. And, we have an incredible very active sex life. The trick is self-confidence in yourself, communication and finding positions that work for both you and your partner.

During the first year that my husband and I started dating, I almost broke it off due to his lack of self-confidence. He constantly put down his size and apologized to me for it. I finally sat him down and told him that he completely satisfied me sexually but, his lack of self-confidence was a complete turn-off. Since we had that talk, we have had no issues.

Brother Joe,

You will not find a girl of you don't go out and socialize. Read on building confidence, start going to the gym, dressing better, make a woman smile and laugh. Sex wise, you should look into giving her oral. This is something I'm going to do myself, buy a DVD on how to give a sensual massage. That should warm up 90% of woman and show how much you care. We have small sizes, we are going to have to try harder, but at the same time love what you have. It is as simple as that.

If you think we have it hard, imagine trying to make it this world as an ex-con supporting his family, or a junkie trying to go straight, maybe a college student down on his luck. I know those are weird examples but I do it so you can see what we all need to realize, easy isn't going to be an easy road. And making hugge problems of something that youre not even sure might matter to a girl isn't helping. I say, aim for shy, sweet women. I'm sure they are the least to care about size.

sounds to me u boy need a penis pump i got one been pumping for a year got perment gains from it and i was 5inches now im 7 yell may have seen some of my pics on this site but now im bigger i wiil post more on soon i didnt beleve pumps work at frist but i wasnt doing it right and i wasnt doning it long enough it works guys but dont buy the cheap pumps i payed about 200 bucks for mine

o and do penis streching to go with it

This is an oldish thread, but while I agree that 4" should be adequate in most cases, it's sometimes a factor of female anatomy. I know a couple of women with particularly fat vulvas. They can spread their legs wide open and you can't even see inside. They literally have to hold their folds apart to receive oral, etc. While both of these ladies were technically overweight, they weren't the biggest women I've seen by a long shot. It's just how they were built.

The answer is to just hang out with ladies who've got skinny pussies. (Or flat-butted dudes, depending on your tastes.)

When women start walking around with "I Have A Skinny Pussy" T shirts that might help.

I need to get me one of those. :p

Actually, I need one that says "I Have An Insanely Textured Vagina", because that's what everyone I've slept with says. I've felt shit in there but I just figured that's how all vaginas were. Apparently not. It's great for the guys, but it kind of sucks for me because no one I've slept with has been able to last longer than a few minutes because of it.

what kind of texture?

I've had a girl like that too. She had so much control on those muscles it was amazing. At some point in a discussion she said she could decide by herself to make me cum at her will. I just said no way, I didn't believe it. Well some time later, we were at it, I was as deep inside her as possible when she said stop. I did, wondering if there was something wrong. Remember when I told you I could make you cum at will she said. Yes, I answered. Well here it is she answered. I was at a stand still, still inside her. She squeezed her muscles and I just came right on the spot, not able to hold it at all.

I was amazed. But I still was not convinced. I thought it was a coincidence. But we did it several times, several different ways and positions and timing. And it worked like clockwork. As long as I hadn't cum already, she simply would decide when I would.

Here's a question I've had regarding the vagina. Say you make her cum afters let's say 10-20 mins of oral and clit stimulation. After she cums, is she tighter afterwards inside? I always hoped after I went down on some girl for a while, maybe she would be tighter afterwards, so she would have a better time and her thinking I have more girth.

Hey, isn't that wonderful? A divine sensation.

I've known two women who had "textured" vaginas. It's easiest to notice when you put your finger in there. With most women it's perfectly smooth and seamless, but with these two their insides had ridges and folds that were very noticeable to the touch. I never thought about their impact to sex (since I generally play covered), but I can see how it could make a difference.

Meet girls at the beach! (Or the pool!)

Great, this info makes me feel better. More reason to orally please a woman if you want to show her how you care about her. Maybe in the end, size doesn't matter...That's a funny question isn't it..I wonder how much size is an issue to women if you truly know what to do in bed..

Indeed it is! :)

Oral pleasure, from/to both sides, is as much good as any other pleasure. And there are no size issue here.

Precisely, just what I and some others have been saying all along.

A guy with a large penis, especially with extra girth, does have the advantage of being able to produce more pressure inside her vagina by default. That being said, being smaller, you need to then find ways to basically mimic that girth by different penetration angles, etc. but THAT can also be what makes sex with a small guy interesting for a woman. It can and very often will be far more varied then just the straight forward thrusting that some do. It's all about coital alignment at the end of the day.

One drunk New Years eve at a couple of friends place my wife to her that I was the best lover she ever had. I felt quite honoured by that, so did all of my 4.5". LOL

And when it comes to handjobs or blowjobs a small penis I find is a great advantage. She can fondle my testicles with one hand, while having the whole shaft in the palm of her hand, right down to the base. Magical feeling, especially around the base she can massage the Cowpers glands, making my produce literally gallons of precum.

When she gives me a blowjob, her mouth won't hurt because of it being too big either and taking it in real deep is yet another bonus for my boner.

I don't thing I would exchange mine for a bigger one.

When I was much younger, I used to have the old premature ejaculation problem, now that used to make me feel somewhat inadequat but I knew just how much she was into foreplay, so by merely extending our foreplay for up to an hour, she would almost climax upon entering.

Massaging her head, especially with your fingertips is a good one to get most women going. Kissing and sucking her neck, sometimes pretty hard actually is a favourite of ours. Nibbling the ears gently and the skin just behind them, now that usually produces some wonderful moans.

Long, gentle stroking and massaging of the thick muscles along the spine, right down to just above her bum, while gently blowing hot air over the skin. It won't take long before your start to feel those tiny hairs stand on end on her back.

Massaging her bottom, kissing and stroking both inside and outside legs or kissing the back of her knees.

There are a million things you can do to get her blood flowing, even without ever touching her clit. Some women become so aroused, they will happily climax by merely having theie necks sucked and nibbled on. Believe me.

Yup, that's how mine is. I always thought that's how all vaginas were, but once I started having sex all the men told me that's not true. I'm still a bit skeptical. :p

And I love this so much. Everyone needs to listen to this guy; he knows what he's talking about.

That's great if you have someone to do it to. Seems unlikely that's going to happen for me and probably a couple of others around here.

Well I've only known two women like that out of about 70 total... so it does seem pretty rare.

70? you've been with 70 women?

reading stuff like this makes me hate my life. I'll be glad when it's over.

Adult Friend Finder, my man. Before that I used to score big by skimming Yahoo profiles. Basically if you found a woman whose yahoo profile had a picture, there was at least an 80% chance it was a MILF looking for a hook-up.

Yahoo completely fucked up their whole profile system several years ago, though. Now it's much more like Facebook, and much harder to find promising results. I've heard that you can find real women on Ashley Madison, too... in fact I know a couple of women who are on there, but I've never used the site personally. But it has been proven that a large number of the profiles there are fake and they generate fake messages to male users to trick them into getting premium accounts.

EDIT: It also probably helps that I have a very wide range of tastes. I like 'em big, small, short, tall, black, white, or brown, younger, older, etc... so long as the face is pretty and I can make her laugh, I'm game.

It's nice to see guys scoring like regular sized guys. It's all on confidence Virgin4Inch. Also, youre in your golden years for random sex where women going care about size. Milfs/cougars are lonely if single. You can easily get 5 new woman a month or start a relationship if that's what your looking for.

Haha, but that's exactly the reason I fool around! Different approaches to the same problem, I guess!

Yep, very much agree. In fact, your chances of pussy increase significantly if you ARE looking for a relationship instead of just NSA sex. (But then you just have to decide if one is enough.)

If I was capable of meeting women (online or otherwise) and having sex with them then I would of done it long before now.