If you are referring to the prostate when speaking of the A-Spot, I somehow doubt it could have anything to do with the actual ejaculation. Any ejaculation triggered by stimulation of the prostate, will produce a slow, though significant discharge of fluid, yet not a 'fountain' as you described it.

Maybe you could elaborate a little on the matter.

Wow, ok. That makes sense... Sometimes when using it, I don't cum as much or as violently, but the orgasm feels great. Other times, I cum all over the place. I'm guessing that I'm hitting my prostate only sometimes, and the other times it just feels good in general.

TD, isn't it amazing just how deeply imbedded our very own homophobia really is? What's always puzzled me even more is that every straight guy should be grateful for any gay they ever meet. After all, another one that's not competing on, what someone here once called, the marriage market.

I am not free from that feeling either, don't get me wrong. I prefer the stimulation to take place externally but then... wow, what a rush. Maybe that might prove to be a useful alternative for you and/or others. You don't even need to be touched anywhere near your rectum, just an inch or two behind the testicles, there is usually a pretty hairless patch of skin, that's the one. At least for me, a killer application, especially when my wife keeps her fingernails well groomed but longish. Talk about tickling my fancy. LOL

Trust me, I get a sigh of relief when I see a pretty boy who's gay, and even checking out me out at times. Nothing wrong with less competition!

I do not like the feeling of having my ass licked (does nothing for me) but I do love to lick a hot ass (for hours). As far as stimulating your ass, sometimes it feels great fingering my ass and other times, it doesn't. Same with getting fucked. I have had some great sessions, and others that I just wanted over with. Guess it depends on the person, and how horny and turned on you are.

Just like with penis size, everyone is different. Just like some people like to get their taint played with, others like their feet, some it is the ear, or neck. Everyone has certain erogenous zone that works for them but not others. I find that I like external anal or just in, but I don't get a mass amount of pleasure from full penetration, I also don't enjoy getting a blowjob very much because I just don't feel the pleasure fully. I love getting my ass eaten.