crazy8

Ehhh, truth be told, most likely your heart was racing for no reason as most of the postings are fake. Man i had to switch my email accounts many times because of all the spam i was getting.
Some of them are clever too, you cant even tell its a spambot from the first email that you see from them. Only in the second of thrid do they send the link to their webiste.

One more thing i would like to add, i would not sggest responding to posts you see on cl. Granted that even if they are real, still it takes a certain person to be posting on cl, there is a reason for everything. You post because you are small, but what would drive a woman to post?

I would recommend making your own posting and see where that goes. Chances are nothing will happen. But if you keep trying eventually you will find a real person.
I also suggest being upfront and honest. Describe your situation, maybe someone will have an interest.

Road

Sometimes CL is a nice option for women. Plentyoffiah sounds cool as well. Just remember, if she looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Go out, dress up, take risks, meet somebody. Even a cooking class or something. Don't just try and get pussy through online.

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Yeah I know...but when I get all worked up, rational thought tends to go out the window.

but you are right, better to make your own posts than respond, I think. I should point out I've used CL for more basic reasons selling/buying, and have learned to spot the fakes. But it's always possible to miss one if it's really done well. Truth be told, I have given up on online dating. Too many that could be if it weren't for the hundreds if not thousands of miles distance, and when I have tried to make it work, it failed before I could get to meet up so I won't waste my time unless he/she is within at least 50 mile radius.

Red

That sux.. It definitely hard enough to find somebody without those flaggers making things worse. I live in a fairly remote area, so there's not a whole lot of ads anyways, adn the few I seen were looking for a man "well hung" and that tells you right there the quality you're dealing with. Oh, so I looked in couples and actually found a believable ad post, but the woman was looking for a man to come in and be top to her husband as he's fucking her. Really not what I was looking for.

Got to also say I'm kinda skeered to make my own ad...only cuz I know enough people who just go there to read them for their amusement. Oh, but I'm the sick puppy?? I think to myself. "What a fool I've been."

I guess the best thing though is to take it for what it is, a pot shot in the dark, that may or may not pay off one day. I hope it does for everybody out there, but being realistic it's good to doubt everything you see/read/hear until they prove themselves. And the only way they'll prove themselves is to give you some action...to genuinely show they are attracted and care. I probably should've started off saying first, I knew a lady for 4yrs on a different forum, we were just aquaintances, didn't know eachother outside of it until she found me on facebook. And then she started showing interest in me, sending me those damn HUGS and HEARTS and shit that girls love doing. We were messaging eachother, things getting hot n heavy, finally we start speaking on the phone. So everythings going real great, right? Turns out, this girl who I thought was 38yr old who had a 5yr old daughter was actually 63yrs old, and the pics she had posted on facebook were of her daughter and granddaughter! Bitch was a sociopath. Man, I was crushed...but, I crushed her back 10x. Having said that, I hope nobody else has to go through that sort of ordeal...thought a few times I was havin an early heart attack or aneurism.

hoverfly

Call my silly or a bit backwards even but what is wrong with meeting people face to face in a pub, bar, disco, sports club or whatever else may float your boat?

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Another thought just came into my mind.

Again, call me weird, silly or anything else but the thought of meeting up with a woman purely to have sex has always been somewhat alien to me. I once went out with a prostitute in Bangkok and honestly, it was little more then meat rubbing meat. I guess the only good thing about it was that it was cheap, so nothing lost there.

Way back in the early 80s I part ran a huge disco in Germany and I always wondered what the attraction of having sex with a stranger in a public lavatory might be. Must have been popular, the loos were constantly littered with used condoms.

Maybe I am just living on a different planet.

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crazy8

Nothing wrong with the way you see things. Everyone is different.
I do agree that sex without any connection is not the same. However, maybe its because i am still young, or just horny but every day i see girls that i would love to fuck, dont even care what they are names are. Maybe for you its rubbing meat against meat. Still doesent change the fact that i want to rub my meat in between any hot girls pussy that i see.
Like i said, maybe im just too horny.

fancypants1

Oh yes I have met a few on CL.. I look for older married men on the down-low Looking for a specific type.

crazy8

Truth be told, cl is full is of gay guys. Not surpirsed that you were able to find a few.
I think this topic pertained to women,

hoverfly

Crazy, I may be old, physically, but I reckon I am just as horny a guy as any 16 year old. LOL.

Don't get me wrong, when I walk through town, Jesus, I don't need Viagra, I need something to keep the bloody thing in check.

My advantage may just be that my wife is nearly as horny as I am. Not quite so much as when we were younger but... Let's not get into this.

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I have had a lot of luck on craigslist. I have probably met 20 plus women from there and had a good time with them all. It is a quick and easy way to get some when you really need it. I find the women for men section better than the casual encounters to much spam there but have had luck in both.