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I wish I had more to contribute to this but just wanted to say I find it encouraging that someone here has had success with CL. I have tried all those things also, plentyoffish, adultfriendfinder, but CL seems to have the most promise for anything good. I've been tempted a few times, looking at the ads got my heart racing sure enough could have been a real exciting time and that's so tempting but always fearful of the unknown. But maybe one day I'll be daring enough, and will post it here for all to read. Good luck to you!!