True. I'm certain if you mKe a women feel good during sex or when with her, she will come back.

There have only been a few women in my life I didn't have sex with too many times to count. Again, if you can please them, and make them like you for you, and learn some tricks for pleasuring, they will always come back for more. I could tease a twat with my hands and mouth so well, then when my little dick came into the picture, they were already exploding with orgasm over and over. *Shudders* Glad that part of my life is over.

I've not read your PM yet but at a first guess I'd say, this may be down at least in part to your current frame of mind TD. Things need to settle down, get back into some routine in life, adapt, adopt and then you'll be looking at it from a different angle I think.

The question is sort of posed in a strange way, but you have hit on something. We should not expect women to just spread their legs for us the way they do for men with big cocks. It just ain't going to happen. We should not expect to be able to just lay there and let our dick get a woman off from mere penetration like they cream on large cocks. But not get laid? No, we will get laid, and may even get laid again by the same woman, but we have to put a lot more effort into being charming, understanding their emotional needs, and being sensitive to the way their bodies respond use our fingers, tongues and work our cocks with skill. We will not have the numbers of conquests that men with big cocks have and our wives will most likely need a little on the side every now and then whether we know it or not, but we should have perfectly fine sex lives...just different than those blessed with a large package. Its a bitch and its unfair, but it just is. If you accept that then there is no need to worry about your size. I'm happy those guys get all the pussy they do without any real effort, but I don't have what they have and can't change the size of my dick. I have just owned what I have and adapted to and accepted this reality.

To me, there is nothing perfectly fine about a wife getting something extra on the side. I rather be alone for the rest of my life than be with a woman who fucks other men. I agree with the rest of your post, your right, it is what it is and we cant do nothing to change it. All we can do is accept it, and cope with it.

The way the world and "god" works is unexplainable. I don't know anymore, my take on it is, just move the fuck on. Be happy.