joe1257

One of my biggest fears is that if I ever did have sex, the girl would go around and tell everyone that I was small. If my friends and family found out I had a very small penis I wouldn't be able to live with the embarassment and shame from that. Do you think women tell people about a guys size?

Attache

Some women do, and others do not. Women do like to discuss sex, and they have fun discussing penis size among themselves. Is that harmful? There is no embarrassment or shame in it. Suppose one says that you are small, and the others want to check your package out for themselves? You're still the winner.

Road

I'm certain if the sex is good, they mention it but not in a negative way. I bet women love a man who knows what he's doing and gives oral just as much as a nice size. Also, How much shame do you think a small penis is? I doubt it's as bad as we make it think. I would never kill myself over it. Look in the right places, gain confidence, and you will find a right girl.

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hoverfly

Joe, it's not as though a woman going to pay for a full page advert in your local newspaper, is it? I have no idea what women friends will discuss amongst themselves but judging by my wife and our female friends, I am inclined to believe that they are more likely to discuss your true merrits, such as how you are looking after her and the pleasurable erotic experiences with you.

One of these days you will have to simply put it to the test, won't you? It is no good living your life in a closet, love won't come looking for you there.

Also, you may find that if you go looking for companionship and love, the sex will just happen at some point but by then you may have convinced the lady of your choice that you have more to offer in life then something that you seem hell-bent on measuring.

You've been with us for about a year now and it has become obvious that you do lack almost every last bit of self confidence, which is a shame, I think you seem to be an otherwise very nice guy but you MUST get over this 'my penis is too small' bit or you might find yourself living a rather miserable life, locked away in your own little world with little or no social interaction, let alone love.

Love is the word, at least for my wife and me it is. For everything else, there is a workaround but it is you who's got to take the first step.

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bifire69

Check out my post. Mine has several times.

drake7k

I don't think that they tell everyone, but I wouldn't put it past them to tell a few friends, but most would just keep it to themselves.

insecure

a friend of the wife's was telling her about this guy she wanted so bad for a long time, turned out he was tiny, his dick kept falling out while they were fucing...now the guy had the balls to say either your cunts too big or my dicks too small.....she replied it aint mine thats too big baby boy...she proceeded to pretty much tell everybody about it ..his fault for trying to blame it on her cunt being too sloppy....she was pretty tight when i fucked her and im not that big either lol

tizzicle

Take it from me, the old adage that its not what you've got its how you use it; is true. I've always been scared of having sex with someone knowing full well that I wouldn't be able to satisfy a woman but over the last 7 years I've had no complaints from the women I've dated. I'm now married and able to keep my wife happy (I do get the comments from her about my dick, but she keeps saying 'I'm joking'-it does hurt my feelings once in awhile) Theres means and ways on how to have a happy sex life with what you have, and positions that are more beneficial to us guys.

Virgin4Inch

It's a hard one to gauge because unless she admits to telling people or you overhear her doing it there's really no way of knowing for sure. Some women do admit to telling their closest friends. What percentage of women do it is hard to tell. Probably if you asked them a lot would lie and so no (if they actually had). I've only had 2 women in my life who would be in a position to tell anyone. One did the other didn't. I know because there wasn't anyone she could tell.

I know my mom told her best friend when I was a teenager. I know because the friend made a couple of remarks to me about me having a small one and the only person that could have told her was my mom.

Do guys do this kind of stuff? I would never ever reveal intimate secrets about a woman I was close with. Even to my closest friends. Especially if it was something I knew she had a hang up about.

Road

Here's a quick life advice Joe, you should aim to TRY and maybe fail, instead of failing all together. Life is too short to worry about this. Anyway, just some quick life advice.

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"If you let it get to you, you will be opening a door of self loathing, despair, and hatred. Look beyond and accept. It will do more to develop your self-acceptance than nearly anything else. We all must learn the lesson of accepting ourselves. If we don't accept ourselves, for what we are, then how can we expect anyone else to accept us?"