Once again, you hit the nail right on the head. Sadly, some of the members most in need of such professional help, fail to see this. We've had such suggestions over and over in the past. Never got anywhere. Shame really.

Once again, can't appreciate enough how considerate you guys are -with all that time taken to put together long replies. Thank all

Regarding the councelling, I actually had been to a counsellor early this year. It worked so well that I was pretty sure that I won't be down again. However, that turns the other wary around from time to time, particularly in negative situations, when I'm losing bidding a project etc. For me what keeps me from sorrow grief etc is to have my self occupied in something else, for ex, I would start working on another project. I'd love to hear you experiences..

Just as one gets a cold or the flu and treats it, one can have recurring emotional issues... not a disgrace and nothing out of the ordinary. We eat and get hungry again. We pee and go again... so, who says that if we get down and get up... that we mustn't have other down times?