SDH? I'll be honest....I don't get it - Page 2

BindiCat · 09-21-2011, 10:49 PM

I'm sure there's something. You just have to be creative.

If I had a small penis I'd make a game of whipping it out in public to see how long it took anyone to notice, or trying to see if I could fit my penis into smaller and smaller things. When you finally get stuck and have to call someone to help get you out, you lose. Or win, whichever way you want to look at it.

deedee · 09-21-2011, 11:17 PM

Hi Bindicat,
You know, there is a deep exhibitionist part of me that thinks " well, I've got nothing so I don't need to be too careful about hiding it". I know that, from time to time, I have found myself around friends when on holiday camping etc dressed just in my boxers and I have to be a whole lot less careful that things don't fall out than long-cocked men would need to be. No ball slapping penis for me to hide !!

jobleau · 09-22-2011, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by BindiCat

I'm sure there's something. You just have to be creative.

If I had a small penis I'd make a game of whipping it out in public to see how long it took anyone to notice, or trying to see if I could fit my penis into smaller and smaller things. When you finally get stuck and have to call someone to help get you out, you lose. Or win, whichever way you want to look at it.

Funny!

Let's just hope a call to paramedics won't be necessary!

jobleau · 09-22-2011, 01:23 AM

I'm pissed. Site ate 75% of the post twice. Deleted and reposted. Had to rewrite the whole thing.

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Originally Posted by joe1257

I don't see any other choice but sph. Theres really not much that can be done with small penis except sph.

I disagree completely. At 53 y/o, I've had a very active sexual life so far, (probably over 50 women) and if it was not for the fact that I'm tired of all the drama (none related to penis size) I've had with women, I would still be having it.

Disclaimer: About the 'drama' part, I didn't mean to bash any woman. This is my bad for choosing them, not theirs. That said, I still hope to find one, without the drama of course.

While some of those women did mention my penis was on the smaller side, that has NEVER been a problem for having good, if not great, sex and not one ever implied any humiliation.

To humiliate
to cause (a person) a painful loss of pride, self-respect, or dignity; mortify.

Synonyms: dishonor, disgrace, shame, degrade

What would you think/say/do if someone humiliated your child or other loved one because of their big nose, malformation or other unusual traits? Whatever shortcomings (no pun intended) anybody has, it is simply unacceptable to humiliate someone, whatever the reason. I won't even go into the consequences this may have on the person subjected to it.

It is basic self and social respect not to do or accept humiliation.

Being an alpha male, proud of myself and my achievements, I just can't understand the whole SPH thing. Don't even try to do any kind of humiliation to me. You won't like the reaction, I swear.

That said, if you are an adult and are indulging yourself into giving/receiving humiliation, by all means enjoy it as much as you can (and possibly eventually suffer the consequences and live with them). But keep in mind not everyone is into it and mostly, don't do it to those not willing to.

jobleau · 09-22-2011, 01:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by deedee

Hi Bindicat,
You know, there is a deep exhibitionist part of me that thinks " well, I've got nothing so I don't need to be too careful about hiding it". I know that, from time to time, I have found myself around friends when on holiday camping etc dressed just in my boxers and I have to be a whole lot less careful that things don't fall out than long-cocked men would need to be. No ball slapping penis for me to hide !!

Indeed!

In fact you do have to work it out a bit if you want it noticed.

deedee · 09-22-2011, 02:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jobleau

Indeed!

In fact you do have to work it out a bit if you want it noticed.

Hahahaha, that's a fact . Prepare for the sighting, as it were !!

MarkBld · 09-22-2011, 06:32 PM

I agree with Virgin4Inch that SPH is more a fantasy trip than some overpowering psychological need. It kind of fits into the category of getting a kick out of trying something "new and strange." To be sure, there are some things way too "new and strange" to simply try for kicks.

I don't know if any of you have checked out the Alt.com site. They have a couple groups focusing on SPH. If you read some of the personal experiences, you come away thinking the guy simply made it up; or at least that the guy embellished it to make it sound more harrowing that it really was. It's like each guy is trying to "one-up" the previous entry. I get the impression that SPH tales are primarily the small dick equivalent of locker room boasting.

LilPoonStar · 10-09-2011, 03:19 AM

It's been a couple weeks since this thread was active, but thought I'd chime in since I do appear to be in the SPH/SDH minority here.

(And actually, I am kind of suprised I'm a minority, because the mytinydick.com content seems to be SPH-slanted.)

Even though I didn't actively seek out SPH/SDH or even really think about it in my adult life until I discovered mytinydick.com, there are roots of it that stretch back way in my past. There were a couple of women I knew (friends' moms) when I was in junior high that I had these fantasies about where they would disapprovingly watch me masturbate and never touch me. I was just a boy, of course, so ALL of me was small back then. I think the fantasies were just my way of working out that even though I was attracted to them, there was no reasonable way I'd even have intimate contact with them... so I constructed a fantasy where I could get aroused, but didn't do anything impossible. (I've never been able to fantasize about celebrities or women I don't know... it's always been women in my life, and I think it's because the fantasy only works if it seems like something that could really happen.)

There's one other thing, though. In my day-to-day life I am dominant. I make decisions when others can't decide; I always guide things when I'm with my friends, and I seem to attract submissive women. I've never dated/married a woman who was even slightly dominant. So I think that the SPH for me is a chance for me to sort of retire from being the leader all the time and kind of be put back in my place. It gives me some balance.

And in practice, all these women I fool around with on the side... the SPH is just a little bit of roleplay we do up-front. It loosens me up, but we transition into normal x-rated lovin' pretty quickly, and it's always been mutually respectful.

09-21-2011, 10:49 PM	#11
BindiCat Tiny Dick Advanced Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 161	I'm sure there's something. You just have to be creative. If I had a small penis I'd make a game of whipping it out in public to see how long it took anyone to notice, or trying to see if I could fit my penis into smaller and smaller things. When you finally get stuck and have to call someone to help get you out, you lose. Or win, whichever way you want to look at it.

09-21-2011, 11:17 PM	#12
deedee Tiny Dick Expert Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: New Zealand Posts: 239	Hi Bindicat, You know, there is a deep exhibitionist part of me that thinks " well, I've got nothing so I don't need to be too careful about hiding it". I know that, from time to time, I have found myself around friends when on holiday camping etc dressed just in my boxers and I have to be a whole lot less careful that things don't fall out than long-cocked men would need to be. No ball slapping penis for me to hide !!

09-22-2011, 06:32 PM	#17
MarkBld Tiny Dick Intermediate Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Baltimore, MD Posts: 93	I agree with Virgin4Inch that SPH is more a fantasy trip than some overpowering psychological need. It kind of fits into the category of getting a kick out of trying something "new and strange." To be sure, there are some things way too "new and strange" to simply try for kicks. I don't know if any of you have checked out the Alt.com site. They have a couple groups focusing on SPH. If you read some of the personal experiences, you come away thinking the guy simply made it up; or at least that the guy embellished it to make it sound more harrowing that it really was. It's like each guy is trying to "one-up" the previous entry. I get the impression that SPH tales are primarily the small dick equivalent of locker room boasting.

10-09-2011, 03:19 AM	#18
LilPoonStar Tiny Dick Beginner Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: USA Posts: 62	It's been a couple weeks since this thread was active, but thought I'd chime in since I do appear to be in the SPH/SDH minority here. (And actually, I am kind of suprised I'm a minority, because the mytinydick.com content seems to be SPH-slanted.) Even though I didn't actively seek out SPH/SDH or even really think about it in my adult life until I discovered mytinydick.com, there are roots of it that stretch back way in my past. There were a couple of women I knew (friends' moms) when I was in junior high that I had these fantasies about where they would disapprovingly watch me masturbate and never touch me. I was just a boy, of course, so ALL of me was small back then. I think the fantasies were just my way of working out that even though I was attracted to them, there was no reasonable way I'd even have intimate contact with them... so I constructed a fantasy where I could get aroused, but didn't do anything impossible. (I've never been able to fantasize about celebrities or women I don't know... it's always been women in my life, and I think it's because the fantasy only works if it seems like something that could really happen.) There's one other thing, though. In my day-to-day life I am dominant. I make decisions when others can't decide; I always guide things when I'm with my friends, and I seem to attract submissive women. I've never dated/married a woman who was even slightly dominant. So I think that the SPH for me is a chance for me to sort of retire from being the leader all the time and kind of be put back in my place. It gives me some balance. And in practice, all these women I fool around with on the side... the SPH is just a little bit of roleplay we do up-front. It loosens me up, but we transition into normal x-rated lovin' pretty quickly, and it's always been mutually respectful.