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Originally Posted by Road
At the age of 21, I want some love from a women. And well my size and having zero experience on hitting on women hold me back. But I want to break that already, I want a GF but my damn size holds me back. And I can't get it out of my mind all women care about size. But I also look at the facts, I am not the only small penis man in the world, and I'm sure there are dudes who do not there size bother them like it does to me. Also I doubt 100% of small penis men are virgins/losers.
So my questions are how do/did you guys get over the fear of a women seeing your penis, and how do you guys hit on women? How do you get confiendent in yourself to talk to a girl? Tips on what should I do would be nice, and just general opinions.
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Although my dick isn't as small as some on this forum, I'm still on the smaller side of the spectrum, so I've always been a bit self-conscious about my size.
My advice is just be comfortable in your own skin. Don't think too much about the sexual aspect of a relationship when you first meet a girl, or when you two are in the initial stages of dating. Also, try to be a bit selective about who you decide to date. Try to find someone who's understanding and caring, and take your time with her. Enjoy being with her; get her comfortable being with you. Build up some excitement and just enjoy each other's company before focussing so much on the sexual aspect of the relationship. Just take your time and ease into it, take it slow, because there really is no rush, especially if this is your first real sexual experience with a girl. The key to enjoying sex with a woman and not feeling self-conscious about it is being comfortable with the girl, and feeling at ease with her.
I know a lot of what i wrote above seems easier said than done, but you can and will find someone cool. Take your time. Join some dating sites. There are so many sites that exist nowadays. I used match.com for a little while. You'd be surprised that there are actually some really nice women you can meet on dating sites who would be better-suited to share something special with you your first time around.
On a separate note, if this is your first time with a woman, and you're really focused on just getting some pussy and not much else, I'd suggest venturing to an asian spa (the happy ending type) if there are any near you. I've been to one three times so far and believe me when I say that they can be a gift to men like us who are a bit self-conscious about their size. I mean you're paying a girl to perform a service for you and give you what you want. She's being paid to make you feel good, so you don't have to give too much of a shit about how she feels. And it makes things quite relaxing and enjoyable just paying a girl to let you do whatever you want to her. Although I must say that I've been having a bit of trouble finding an asian spa with a girl who will let me fuck her up the ass. But that's another story. Or you might even want to look around online and find a really nice escort. An escort is on my to-do list for this upcoming summer, in fact.
In any case, definitely give consideration to an asian spa, or an escort, if the whole relationship thing isn't for you.
...And Road, post a photo or two of your dick. Don't be shy around us pricks! I'm kind of interested to see what you look like
