Road

At the age of 21, I want some love from a women. And well my size and having zero experience on hitting on women hold me back. But I want to break that already, I want a GF but my damn size holds me back. And I can't get it out of my mind all women care about size. But I also look at the facts, I am not the only small penis man in the world, and I'm sure there are dudes who do not there size bother them like it does to me. Also I doubt 100% of small penis men are virgins/losers.
So my questions are how do/did you guys get over the fear of a women seeing your penis, and how do you guys hit on women? How do you get confiendent in yourself to talk to a girl? Tips on what should I do would be nice, and just general opinions.

danny14

I think that if you have this sort of "fear" or shyness about the woman's reaction, it's best to let her know about it before she has the chance to see it. How exactly to bring the subject up is harder to suggest, maybe ask the girl what does she appreciate most in a man and maybe work from there. If she knows and is still interested it's gonna be easier. If she drops interest, it's easier too.

rustyshackleford

well for me i had never been in a relationship till i was 18, and us guys who arent jocks and body builders or GQ models usually make women the happiest in a relationship because of how we treat them.. not long after dating my first girl she couldnt get enough always making out and she made the first move she just pulled it out and went to town on it she couldnt hold back.. after a few of these intense sessions she was naked and i was fingerin her while she was playing with mine and she got on top of me kissing me and without me saying anything she just slipped it in before i could react, she said she couldnt resist it anymore.. love and lust does things to people. if you got a girl to fall for you she isnt gonna care. if your looking for a one night stand or just hooking up shes probably gonna laugh or judge, cause she is most likely a whore who has had more dicks in her than she can count and its unlikely they have all been 3-5" dicks.. thats my opionion on the subject, I never got over it till she made me, i didnt want it out of my pants at first because i was afraid but i didnt have the will power to move my hands or say no before she unzipped my pants that first time Good luck man

greendragon2

Hi dont feel bad about your small dick. Use to suffer the same no girls no nothing. Just get it out of your head as hrd as it sounds. I have a beautiful wife right now who loves fucking me and had girls friend b4 who love my small dick as well just that some women are bitches and have made fun of it but its their loss really. I dont let that effect me cuz im a very good lover in bed girls have told me they like fucking me more than a big dick espically in the ass. I never mention it... it does not have to be mentioned it... just act as if you have a big one.. love your dick... give it a name praise it... its the best dam dick there is. i always tell the girl i have a fat big cock and when they see it they laugh and have a sence of humor about it and they just suck it anyways and enjoy it. just if she laughs dont let it get you down you stay hard you stay excited and she will still fuck it im certain... i have failed b4 when a girl has laughed and my dick could not stay hard but if it stays hard she will be attracted to suck it or lick it regardless of size... have confidence in your dick its fine!

LackingForeskin

Although my dick isn't as small as some on this forum, I'm still on the smaller side of the spectrum, so I've always been a bit self-conscious about my size.

My advice is just be comfortable in your own skin. Don't think too much about the sexual aspect of a relationship when you first meet a girl, or when you two are in the initial stages of dating. Also, try to be a bit selective about who you decide to date. Try to find someone who's understanding and caring, and take your time with her. Enjoy being with her; get her comfortable being with you. Build up some excitement and just enjoy each other's company before focussing so much on the sexual aspect of the relationship. Just take your time and ease into it, take it slow, because there really is no rush, especially if this is your first real sexual experience with a girl. The key to enjoying sex with a woman and not feeling self-conscious about it is being comfortable with the girl, and feeling at ease with her.

I know a lot of what i wrote above seems easier said than done, but you can and will find someone cool. Take your time. Join some dating sites. There are so many sites that exist nowadays. I used match.com for a little while. You'd be surprised that there are actually some really nice women you can meet on dating sites who would be better-suited to share something special with you your first time around.

On a separate note, if this is your first time with a woman, and you're really focused on just getting some pussy and not much else, I'd suggest venturing to an asian spa (the happy ending type) if there are any near you. I've been to one three times so far and believe me when I say that they can be a gift to men like us who are a bit self-conscious about their size. I mean you're paying a girl to perform a service for you and give you what you want. She's being paid to make you feel good, so you don't have to give too much of a shit about how she feels. And it makes things quite relaxing and enjoyable just paying a girl to let you do whatever you want to her. Although I must say that I've been having a bit of trouble finding an asian spa with a girl who will let me fuck her up the ass. But that's another story. Or you might even want to look around online and find a really nice escort. An escort is on my to-do list for this upcoming summer, in fact.

In any case, definitely give consideration to an asian spa, or an escort, if the whole relationship thing isn't for you.

...And Road, post a photo or two of your dick. Don't be shy around us pricks! I'm kind of interested to see what you look like

BindiCat

You want women? You need confidence. That's the real key. Even if you don't have any, just fake it. Women can pick up on that, and fake confidence is better than no confidence. I've been with guys that, just based on physicality, I would never have given the time of day to (atleast in an intimate sense; I'll be friends with anyone). But because they were so confident and charismatic, that in itself made them attractive. It's like a magnet. And half of them had small dicks, so it can definitely be done.

nangatrad86

well my advice is 1st... go like a girl that you know already n who also likes you back...

2nd... forget about your size.... thats what i did... i ddnt think about it n all i thought about was how to get the girl that i liked...

3rd ....throw all your insecurities away... they're nothing more than a nuisance.. what you see in TV is not what its actually like in real life..

4th... be yourself... like what the others said... be confident... its not what size you have but in all actuality its your chemistry with the girl that matters... (in my opinion girls who think size matters are just girls who are vain and dont know what they totaly want in life... ergo.... losers.... n you dont have to stoop down to they're level)

and 5th.... n what i do... what you lack in size make up for in techniques... most guys have big dicks but they dont actually know how to pleasure a woman... but thats a whole different story....

all in all... take it in steps.... sex is the farthest thing you should think about right now.... what matters right now is how you can get your girl and see the chemistry between you 2..... so like i said... be yourself.. be confident.... n when you get to the next stage ill be here to lend a hand... hehe

Road

Ha thanks cor being here when I need it. And it was nice hearing the womens aspect on my problems. And ha I might I'll post a pic someday..haha

danny14

I'd like to comment a little on this because I consider it to be bad advice.. Sorry if I may come across a little harsh it's just my opinion. My advice goes to the OP.

First, I always found the words "just be yourself" really awkward. Like, can somebody be other then himself? You can only be yourself, so it ends up being meaningless. Other then that, sometimes, "being yourself" might be more of a problem then anything else.Sometimes, "you" suck. Sad, but true. You need to change when you do suck. Not stay that way. So , spend some time to ponder on the question "Do I suck?" If you are honest and say yes, then you can work from there. If not, it's good that you considered the idea and it should still help increase confidence.

And I would say that it's stupid to say (no offense, but it really is) that a girl who likes big dick is a loser that doesn't know what she wants in life. You are tiny cocked, I know. Sucks. But it's not any woman's fault for your handicap. Take it out on nature not women who like beautiful strong cock. Men like beautiful women. Women like strong, manly men, and most of them want men with big dicks. It would take a strange woman to desire a tiny cock.

Road

Would be strange but awesome!