Originally Posted by PaintItPretty (Post 26117)

Unlike all of you (and being a female) I wanted to keep my virginity until I found 'Mr. Right' (laughing now at the naivety of that). I graduated high school being one of the only virgins left and I wanted it that way. I had been in a relationship with a guy 5 years older than me since I had been 16 and (he was 21) and just before my 19th birthday we had sex. He lasted less than a minute and afterwards said "Man. I'm so glad we didn't break up before I got to do that. *smiles and nudges me*. Too bad you won't be that tight again. *laughs and nudges me again* Lets get some pizza". I wasted 5 years with him unfortunately (and he never got better in bed either).

Originally Posted by PaintItPretty (Post 26117)

He lasted less than a minute and afterwards said "Man. I'm so glad we didn't break up before I got to do that. *smiles and nudges me*. Too bad you won't be that tight again. *laughs and nudges me again* Lets get some pizza". I wasted 5 years with him unfortunately (and he never got better in bed either).

Originally Posted by PaintItPretty (Post 26134)

Virgin4inch-
He never actually got away because he's still in my life and has been since we broke up. He has MS and I help him with a few things (take him to appointments, stuff like that). When he was able to live alone I would clean his house once a week, cook some food and bring over and make sure he had clean clothes. I guess with him being a part of my life for 5 years and him living just down the street from my parents house, I couldn't completely sever ties.

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Originally Posted by PaintItPretty (Post 26134)

Virgin4inch-
He never actually got away because he's still in my life and has been since we broke up. He has MS and I help him with a few things (take him to appointments, stuff like that). When he was able to live alone I would clean his house once a week, cook some food and bring over and make sure he had clean clothes. I guess with him being a part of my life for 5 years and him living just down the street from my parents house, I couldn't completely sever ties.

Originally Posted by PaintItPretty (Post 26134)

Jobleau-It was lame, but not because he only lasted less than a minute my first time, but that he never got any better haha.

Originally Posted by PaintItPretty (Post 26154)

Thanks. My friends would disagree. They think I'm a sucker.



I've dated some really nice guys, so I know not all of them are like that. I just came out of a 4 year relationship though, eventually, when I'm back to myself, I certainly hope I do find a good guy.

Originally Posted by Thicknshort (Post 26156)

In that situation, it's better to be true to your heart and to accept the consequence of being considered what some would deem a "sucker", than to do something the opposite of your own good nature.

Originally Posted by PaintItPretty (Post 26154)

Thanks. My friends would disagree. They think I'm a sucker.